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2017-09-21 06:33:58 PM ericasouter She loves to be outside!
2017-09-21 06:34:10 PM shirleym LOL kathy! I want to be left alone!
2017-09-21 06:34:12 PM kathyhughes teach them through inservices
2017-09-21 06:34:16 PM catiah Loved it too debra!!
2017-09-21 06:34:27 PM nikiawyche they won't understand because their job has them moving so they think you and the resident s should alos
2017-09-21 06:34:32 PM jamiebernard do you feel pressure from family members who expect you to get their loved ones in activities, yet the residents are just fine with the way they spend their time?
2017-09-21 06:34:36 PM melissajdikken Oh i will be in all the activities when its my time!!!!!
2017-09-21 06:34:37 PM julia46135 You want to see behaviours!!!! Put me in front of a bingo card when I am in a facility!!
2017-09-21 06:34:42 PM kathyhughes Teach them that people need time to reflect and to think
2017-09-21 06:34:45 PM monac hummmm, I will try that Kathy, thank you
2017-09-21 06:35:08 PM ericasouter Yes, that is true because even I do not like to be busy all of the time
2017-09-21 06:35:11 PM catiah Hummmm.. I will not forget it Kathy(v)
2017-09-21 06:35:18 PM kathyhughes We all do Jamie and I would ask them what types of activities did thier parents do when they were young
2017-09-21 06:35:27 PM moniques no pressure becauase i had a stuation like that, and the resident didnt want to be bother because he was on the final stage of cancer
2017-09-21 06:35:33 PM monac How about the family members that want their mom or dad at every activity
2017-09-21 06:35:34 PM kathyhughes without kids being around to take care of
2017-09-21 06:35:56 PM moniques I did 1:1 visits and enjoy that.
2017-09-21 06:36:03 PM kathyhughes They are feeling guilty and sometimes we have to point out that they are involved
2017-09-21 06:36:11 PM kimstutz we have a 94 yr old woman and her children think, insist she go to exercise 4/5 days a week
2017-09-21 06:36:14 PM jamiebernard I wish i had more time for 1:1 visits
2017-09-21 06:36:17 PM kathyhughes Which is why I did the Marketing program
2017-09-21 06:36:32 PM shirleym wow Kim! : /
2017-09-21 06:36:32 PM catiah indeed
2017-09-21 06:36:33 PM ericasouter I wish I had time to have 1-1 visits more too!
2017-09-21 06:36:35 PM kathyhughes Are you ready for a story???????
2017-09-21 06:36:35 PM alexandrac we have family that unreasonably requests that their parent is at all sorts of things that A. she doesn't want to do or B. isnt able to
2017-09-21 06:36:38 PM melissajdikken Jamie, I do. I have a lil lady that i like to call a 5 sec tom, she stays for an activity and wanders in and out in between.
2017-09-21 06:36:42 PM monac ready Kathy
2017-09-21 06:36:43 PM nikiawyche yes
2017-09-21 06:36:44 PM shirleym ready!
2017-09-21 06:36:44 PM marciatrimiew yes...
2017-09-21 06:36:48 PM melissajdikken ready
2017-09-21 06:36:48 PM julia46135 yup
2017-09-21 06:36:48 PM catiah ready!
2017-09-21 06:36:49 PM aturner1026 yes!
2017-09-21 06:36:59 PM alexandrac We do everything we can to please both sides, but ultimately it is what resident wants
2017-09-21 06:37:06 PM kimstutz ready
2017-09-21 06:37:16 PM loriann (y)
2017-09-21 06:37:19 PM ericasouter Yes, it goes down to what the residents' want!
2017-09-21 06:37:22 PM kathyhughes I had a resident who had a daughter who insisted that her mother go to Catholic Mass every Friday
2017-09-21 06:37:22 PM shirleym agree alexandrac
2017-09-21 06:37:33 PM wandellav it Appealin Apparel from Indianapolis 2 young lady
2017-09-21 06:38:05 PM kathyhughes I would tell the resident that her daughter wanted her to go....and she would kick and scream all the way there
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2017-09-21 06:38:33 PM kathyhughes So a few years later after the residents passed her daughter was admitted
2017-09-21 06:38:49 PM moniques wow... kathy
2017-09-21 06:38:52 PM catiah hummmm....
2017-09-21 06:39:01 PM kathyhughes And guess what I went in and told her that Mass was happening.....and she said she didn't want to go
2017-09-21 06:39:13 PM jrothermel85 let me guess she didn't want to go to mass
2017-09-21 06:39:15 PM catiah :D
2017-09-21 06:39:20 PM jrothermel85 haha
2017-09-21 06:39:22 PM debra and ....
2017-09-21 06:39:22 PM kathyhughes And I told her that she had to because her Mother wanted her to!
2017-09-21 06:39:22 PM monac lol
2017-09-21 06:39:27 PM aturner1026 lol
2017-09-21 06:39:29 PM shirleym hahahahaha!! good one!!
2017-09-21 06:39:29 PM jrothermel85 ahahaha
2017-09-21 06:39:30 PM kimstutz that's great
2017-09-21 06:39:33 PM debra awesome! did she go?
2017-09-21 06:39:34 PM kimstutz haha,
2017-09-21 06:39:36 PM marciatrimiew lol..
2017-09-21 06:39:39 PM catiah Great Kathy(y)
2017-09-21 06:39:58 PM catiah did she go???
2017-09-21 06:40:02 PM jamiebernard bahahah! Karma
2017-09-21 06:40:03 PM kathyhughes Thats what happens when you work in the same facility for 30 years
2017-09-21 06:40:13 PM kathyhughes Yes I made her
2017-09-21 06:40:13 PM shirleym hilarious
2017-09-21 06:40:14 PM catiah KKKKKKKKKKK
2017-09-21 06:40:15 PM monac oh no!!!!!!!
2017-09-21 06:40:17 PM nikiawyche I had a resident family member insist that I email them a calendar they would call and tell the resident to get out of her room she came upstairs after about 4 months and said if you stop send them she would come she said her children never and that her step children were always there so I stop sending the calendar and she started coming to activities
2017-09-21 06:40:25 PM melissajdikken Awesome!!
2017-09-21 06:40:30 PM debra and her response afterwards?
2017-09-21 06:40:41 PM kathyhughes LOL
2017-09-21 06:40:44 PM jamiebernard haha
2017-09-21 06:40:45 PM monac I bet her mom was laughing from up above lol
2017-09-21 06:40:48 PM julia46135 haha
2017-09-21 06:40:52 PM loriann Quick question... I see for some odd reason, I missed an old forum assignment ... can I still do that and get credit for it? I had no idea that I missed one!
2017-09-21 06:40:58 PM nikiawyche she was just waitn to her kids call cuz the step kids visit all the time
2017-09-21 06:41:07 PM ericasouter Haha that is too funny
2017-09-21 06:41:14 PM kathyhughes She kept coming because she was afraid of her Irish mother and what would happen!!!
2017-09-21 06:41:18 PM alexandrac Good one!!!
2017-09-21 06:41:20 PM kimstutz hahaha
2017-09-21 06:41:23 PM moniques lol4
2017-09-21 06:41:26 PM nikiawyche lol
2017-09-21 06:41:27 PM aturner1026 haha
2017-09-21 06:41:29 PM jamiebernard Bahahaha thats even funnier kathy
2017-09-21 06:41:31 PM kathyhughes Yes you can
2017-09-21 06:41:32 PM melissajdikken I have a resident whose daughter comes and talks to her mother like a toddler!!!! Honestly drives me insane...........
2017-09-21 06:41:34 PM catiah KKKKKKK:D
2017-09-21 06:41:36 PM monac Oh my that is funny
2017-09-21 06:41:42 PM loriann GREAT ty Kathy!!!!!
2017-09-21 06:41:44 PM wandellav i whis i had some down time i try to get my work up to date and after work i take care of a hoese barn and the man who own's it he is in his 80 so what is down time ha ha
2017-09-21 06:41:47 PM kathyhughes Can't help families
2017-09-21 06:42:18 PM julia46135 No you sure can't Kathy
2017-09-21 06:42:19 PM jrothermel85 families can be lovely to deal with and then they can be really lovely to deal with
2017-09-21 06:42:23 PM marciatrimiew great stories..
2017-09-21 06:42:34 PM nikiawyche I have one to she still calls her mom " mommy" and when she speaks to staff she says mommy needs this can you do this for mommy the residents started calling her mommy lol
2017-09-21 06:42:41 PM monac That was a nice funny story Kathy, I am still smiling
2017-09-21 06:42:44 PM alexandrac I had a gal that attended mass every week and then woudl swear a blue streak in between. I asked once didn't you just take communion? She said "Oh don't tell him!!!"
2017-09-21 06:42:47 PM melissajdikken nope you cant, but sometimes it does feel good to vent
2017-09-21 06:42:59 PM debra love that story!
2017-09-21 06:43:01 PM shirleym lol nikiawyche!
2017-09-21 06:43:16 PM kathyhughes Families are feeling guilty and I would tell them that they do attend what their loved one is interested in which is why I left handouts, and all types of cheapo stuff when I visited them
2017-09-21 06:43:40 PM catiah Right!
2017-09-21 06:44:15 PM kathyhughes I made sure that they got stuff at activities at least 4 times a week as well,,,even if it was a copied certificate or sticker
2017-09-21 06:44:19 PM nikiawyche I do a traveling plant for residents who don't come out I ask them to care for it for a week this is the healthiest plant in the building
2017-09-21 06:44:22 PM monac sometimes I feel that families just don't feel guilty they just want to be in charge
2017-09-21 06:44:24 PM wandellav so far my resident whis i would stay open until they go to bed if they had there way i would just keep activities open all day
2017-09-21 06:44:25 PM loriann Great idea
2017-09-21 06:44:42 PM alexandrac and sometimes the family is in denial....
2017-09-21 06:44:42 PM melissajdikken I am hoping that very soon i can make some changes with my department, Well see what happens after the 29th, crossing my fingers
2017-09-21 06:44:44 PM shirleym that is a WONDERFUL idea nikiawyche! love it!
2017-09-21 06:44:57 PM kathyhughes They are Alex
2017-09-21 06:45:08 PM ericasouter That is a great idea!
2017-09-21 06:45:11 PM lauriec I invite families to come in for group activities or events when they say their loved one isn't involved enough
2017-09-21 06:45:14 PM monac agree alexandrac
2017-09-21 06:45:17 PM kathyhughes and then there are those who only show up when they are dying!
2017-09-21 06:45:29 PM jrothermel85 oh that pisses me off
2017-09-21 06:45:31 PM kimstutz what happens the 29th? melissa
2017-09-21 06:45:35 PM julia46135 Yes those family members make me mad!!!
2017-09-21 06:45:36 PM marciatrimiew Very sad..
2017-09-21 06:45:38 PM melissajdikken ...............so very true...............
2017-09-21 06:45:38 PM monac Oh my I don't want to get started on that subject
2017-09-21 06:45:40 PM shirleym that's soooo sad kathy! : (
2017-09-21 06:45:40 PM debra and some not even then
2017-09-21 06:45:44 PM kathyhughes Yes sending them an invite will make them think
2017-09-21 06:46:09 PM melissajdikken my boss resigned from her position. Her last day is the 29th
2017-09-21 06:46:17 PM lauriec But we weren't raised by the residents. I try my best not to judge.
2017-09-21 06:46:20 PM shirleym me too jrothermel85!
2017-09-21 06:46:22 PM kimstutz ohhh, wow. keep us posted
2017-09-21 06:46:28 PM nikiawyche are you applying Melissa
2017-09-21 06:46:30 PM kathyhughes Which is why my ladies made card every day
2017-09-21 06:46:30 PM monac I had one son come into his mom's room when she passed just to take a picture off of her wall he wanted. He never visited her
2017-09-21 06:46:53 PM monac I was so upset I had to leave the floor.
2017-09-21 06:46:54 PM alexandrac wow....
2017-09-21 06:47:07 PM loriann oh wow
2017-09-21 06:47:11 PM kathyhughes We would send invites to families for the regular programs esp the ones that wanted them busy
2017-09-21 06:47:13 PM shirleym that is soooo wrong monac!
2017-09-21 06:47:15 PM catiah wow
2017-09-21 06:47:20 PM melissajdikken the position is for social work designee , it was tied into the activity directors position as well.
2017-09-21 06:47:23 PM kimstutz that is a good idea
2017-09-21 06:47:28 PM kathyhughes It is awful
2017-09-21 06:47:29 PM debra i tell myself often that i haven't any idea what it was like growing up in their household ..... keeps me from getting angry at the kids since i haven't a clue what life was really like for them.
2017-09-21 06:47:39 PM alexandrac of course we don't know what the dynamics were with the family .....
2017-09-21 06:47:40 PM melissajdikken Im waiting to find out if they are going to separate the positions.
2017-09-21 06:47:43 PM jamiebernard somtimes the families feel guilty themselves that their loved ones are in a nursing homer and that is why they seem to be controlling, they need to still feel in control of their parents care
2017-09-21 06:47:59 PM shirleym that is a very good point Debra...good perspective
2017-09-21 06:48:11 PM kathyhughes You are all right!
2017-09-21 06:48:31 PM monac good point debra, but still very hard
2017-09-21 06:48:35 PM catiah I agree
2017-09-21 06:48:53 PM jamiebernard so true Debra
2017-09-21 06:48:54 PM debra yes it is!
2017-09-21 06:49:15 PM loriann me too
2017-09-21 06:49:20 PM kimstutz one of my favorite ladies passed last weekend. We were invited to her memorial. The daughter was so kind, she told me I was her moms favorite, that we had a connection.. I cried
2017-09-21 06:49:32 PM jamiebernard something similar happened at our facility and the father (resident) had abused the kids. it explained alot
2017-09-21 06:49:38 PM kathyhughes Thats great Kim
2017-09-21 06:49:51 PM kimstutz it was.. very kind of her
2017-09-21 06:49:52 PM melissajdikken Awe Kim i hear ya, sorry for your loss, but awesome you have that bond!!
2017-09-21 06:49:53 PM debra that's why you do what you do right kim?
2017-09-21 06:50:03 PM kimstutz yes, it is .
2017-09-21 06:50:06 PM catiah wow Jamie
2017-09-21 06:50:08 PM kathyhughes I always though we should screen the families
2017-09-21 06:50:10 PM jrothermel85 I guess I get a bit emotional when so residents are on their way out. To me they become family you know. You care, you advacate, you listen. Even love.
2017-09-21 06:50:26 PM kimstutz that is true.
2017-09-21 06:50:28 PM marciatrimiew Is this the last night for everyone? No one has said anything. ...
2017-09-21 06:50:30 PM ericasouter We had a resident suddenly pass away this week, and it was nice to see how everyone came together to support his wife
2017-09-21 06:50:32 PM monac agree jrothermel85
2017-09-21 06:50:33 PM jamiebernard yes it never gets easier.. they def are like family
2017-09-21 06:50:35 PM shirleym so true jrothermel85
2017-09-21 06:50:43 PM alexandrac Oh yes I have had onces that I totally love like my own grandparent
2017-09-21 06:50:46 PM monac we are told not to get attached to the residents
2017-09-21 06:50:49 PM alexandrac ones
2017-09-21 06:50:52 PM melissajdikken my husband just bribed my toddler with a twizzlers to not climb on me while im trying to type.......sorry had to share
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2017-09-21 06:51:01 PM alexandrac sorry having a migraine, can't see...
2017-09-21 06:51:05 PM lauriec I had a woman that came to the facility every six months. She brought new clothes, a new electric razor, ect. She would stay 15 minutes only for about 5 years. Her father was then dying and she stayed by his side for two shifts until he passes. She then tells us how he beat her everyday as a child with a horse whip which caused her to have a permanent limp.
2017-09-21 06:51:05 PM jamiebernard you cant help but get attached..
2017-09-21 06:51:06 PM monac That is easier said then done
2017-09-21 06:51:11 PM julia46135 One of the hardest part of the job is seeing my residents still active and moving around well and watch them slowly become ill.
2017-09-21 06:51:13 PM shirleym how can you NOT get attached to the residents?
2017-09-21 06:51:19 PM wandellav does any one sale pop and chips and candy in there activities room to the resident ?????
2017-09-21 06:51:21 PM aturner1026 how can you not get attached? you become a HUGE part of the resident's life.
2017-09-21 06:51:31 PM jrothermel85 i know monac but it is hard. I grew up taking care of my grandparents and never knew my other set.
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2017-09-21 06:51:36 PM catiah good question shirley!
2017-09-21 06:51:49 PM jamiebernard wow lauriec!!!
2017-09-21 06:52:05 PM jrothermel85 i think it makes me good at what i do
2017-09-21 06:52:06 PM kathyhughes You do get attached and I know that you all have your favorites!
2017-09-21 06:52:29 PM nikiawyche i had a resident for 12 years we placed her on hospice however she is boarder line she has good days and bad so she just celebrated her 95 bday her brother came is 93 the nephew and I both were crying I said when I come in here and the room is dark I raise the blinds we talk and pray every morning she still has a lot of life she just has some good days and bad but we were both wioing each others eys and a visiting nurse came to the front desk and said a resident is upstair wiping a staff members eyes and they are both crying it was so sweet to hear someone say thank you for everything
2017-09-21 06:52:31 PM shirleym oh yes....and some that are soooo challenging LOL!
2017-09-21 06:52:41 PM monac I always get attached to the residents, especially the ones that have no family or friends that visit ever
2017-09-21 06:52:42 PM ericasouter I have my favorites even though you are not supposed t
2017-09-21 06:53:02 PM lauriec She didn't want to tell us while he was alive because she was afraid we wouldn't care for him properly.
2017-09-21 06:53:08 PM monac They are all my favorites LOL
2017-09-21 06:53:11 PM catiah Yes we do Kathy. But I don't tell anyone:D
2017-09-21 06:53:14 PM shirleym sooo sweet nikia
2017-09-21 06:53:17 PM nikiawyche I have the sunshine club, the favorites the bestie and the I'll change you club lol
2017-09-21 06:53:17 PM melissajdikken thats sweet nikiia
2017-09-21 06:53:20 PM jrothermel85 awww
2017-09-21 06:53:28 PM alexandrac we would not be human if we didn't have feelings for them both good and bad, it is how we treat them all that matters
2017-09-21 06:53:31 PM marciatrimiew It is easy to get attached to the residents. They are reminders of your parents and grandparents..
2017-09-21 06:53:37 PM debra wow laurie .....
2017-09-21 06:53:40 PM kathyhughes We all do and so do the rest of the staff
2017-09-21 06:53:43 PM shirleym right alexandrac!
2017-09-21 06:53:51 PM monac I agree marciatrimiew
2017-09-21 06:53:54 PM loriann thats a good thing i think
2017-09-21 06:54:09 PM alexandrac sometimes it is the trouble makers that are my favorite
2017-09-21 06:54:12 PM kathyhughes It is
2017-09-21 06:54:13 PM progers111781 yall been great a lot of ideas thanks a bunch
2017-09-21 06:54:23 PM alexandrac they still have some spirit!!!
2017-09-21 06:54:27 PM debra i agree alexandra!
2017-09-21 06:54:30 PM jrothermel85 yes alexandrac
2017-09-21 06:54:32 PM aturner1026 LOL same, alexandrac!
2017-09-21 06:54:32 PM melissajdikken i have a lady that tells me i should sit on her lap every day,,,,,,
2017-09-21 06:54:33 PM shirleym yes they do!!
2017-09-21 06:54:33 PM moniques This was a grerat chat!
2017-09-21 06:54:37 PM kathyhughes Anything else for tonight?
2017-09-21 06:54:43 PM kimstutz wow lauriec.. we just know .. there is a man at our facility that I am told was a wife beater, and he is still demanding. He grabbed my arm one day and would not let go. I had to get help to get him to release me. He wants us to call his wife, and she refuses to come down because he still verbally abuses her...
2017-09-21 06:54:44 PM ericasouter I agree this was a great chat!
2017-09-21 06:54:46 PM debra bed! thanks kathy!
2017-09-21 06:54:49 PM melissajdikken today she told me i could come home with her and snuggle
2017-09-21 06:54:51 PM alexandrac nope thanx for solving the activity trap question!!
2017-09-21 06:54:52 PM loriann Thanks Kathy
2017-09-21 06:54:59 PM moniques You all have a great weekend. Thank you kathy for the links tonight
2017-09-21 06:54:59 PM shirleym i'm good and thanks everyone!
2017-09-21 06:55:01 PM catiah i agree alexandra!!!
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2017-09-21 06:55:06 PM monac not for me, wishing everyone a good night, Thank you Kathy
2017-09-21 06:55:06 PM julia46135 I don't think so, been a nice chat
2017-09-21 06:55:10 PM jamiebernard goodnight everyone!
2017-09-21 06:55:12 PM ericasouter Thank you Kathy for the CE!
2017-09-21 06:55:14 PM kathyhughes Have a great week all
2017-09-21 06:55:15 PM marciatrimiew Thanks everyone for your insightful wisdom...I've got a notebook full of ideas to implement!!
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2017-09-21 06:55:19 PM aturner1026 goodnight everyone!
2017-09-21 06:55:20 PM jrothermel85 i am good for now
2017-09-21 06:55:20 PM jamiebernard same to you
2017-09-21 06:55:21 PM lauriec Goodnight!
2017-09-21 06:55:23 PM kathyhughes you are welcome
2017-09-21 06:55:23 PM jrothermel85 night
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2017-09-21 06:55:28 PM kimstutz good night
2017-09-21 06:55:30 PM debra left the chat room
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2017-09-21 06:55:36 PM wandellav good night
2017-09-21 06:55:40 PM nikiawyche good night all
2017-09-21 06:55:45 PM marciatrimiew Kathy, this is my last chat? right?
2017-09-21 06:55:52 PM kathyhughes yes
2017-09-21 06:56:00 PM catiah Thank you everyone I learned a lot !!
2017-09-21 06:56:02 PM ericasouter Goodnight!
2017-09-21 06:56:04 PM alexandrac 4 more for me!!! C U next week!
2017-09-21 06:56:13 PM nikiawyche Kathy Im chating for life lol
2017-09-21 06:56:21 PM kathyhughes You can
2017-09-21 06:56:39 PM melissajdikken night all
2017-09-21 06:56:41 PM kathyhughes once you are done you can join the Alumni room
2017-09-21 06:56:43 PM alexandrac bye bye, time to head home!
2017-09-21 06:56:47 PM marciatrimiew Special thanks for all of your help...now back to studying for the exams!!!
2017-09-21 06:56:48 PM kathyhughes and they have access to the chats
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2017-09-21 06:57:08 PM marciatrimiew Alumni room cool....is there a special day to chat?
2017-09-21 06:57:27 PM kathyhughes no but you can join the regular chats
2017-09-21 06:57:52 PM loriann Thanks again and let me know about that email :)
2017-09-21 06:57:56 PM kathyhughes Good Night all
2017-09-21 06:58:01 PM loriann night
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2017-09-21 06:58:38 PM marciatrimiew Good night!!..Hope our paths cross in the future!!
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2017-09-21 06:59:11 PM catiah Good night all(v)
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2017-09-21 07:00:49 PM julia46135 night all, good luck on midterm!
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