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2018-11-07 07:52:02 PM cchase do not tell them - rather remind them that their spouse passed away
2018-11-07 07:52:12 PM tcrute13 yes
2018-11-07 07:52:17 PM alexisl yes
2018-11-07 07:52:18 PM tjoned so true
2018-11-07 07:52:18 PM cchase they will relive that raw emotion all over agin
2018-11-07 07:52:28 PM schweitzerkl for sure they will
2018-11-07 07:52:29 PM alexisl agreed
2018-11-07 07:52:30 PM cchase it is not helpful to tell them that truth
2018-11-07 07:52:31 PM smccormick that is good information and a great way to redirect
2018-11-07 07:52:33 PM tcrute13 yes
2018-11-07 07:52:37 PM lauravillatoro1989 thats what i was going to say
2018-11-07 07:52:49 PM cchase we call that "therapeutic fiblets"
2018-11-07 07:52:55 PM alexisl ok
2018-11-07 07:52:57 PM trinawh i let them talk about their spouse without reminding them of anything. it seems to work for them
2018-11-07 07:53:08 PM smccormick i will remember that
2018-11-07 07:53:14 PM alexisl me to
2018-11-07 07:53:24 PM cchase if they believe it and it makes them happy no harm no foul
2018-11-07 07:53:36 PM tonjarobles exactly
2018-11-07 07:53:36 PM smccormick yes
2018-11-07 07:53:37 PM alexisl ok great
2018-11-07 07:53:40 PM tjoned i allow them to live in their moment
2018-11-07 07:53:46 PM schweitzerkl agree
2018-11-07 07:53:51 PM dustylann agree
2018-11-07 07:53:52 PM cchase you need to be part of their world
2018-11-07 07:53:58 PM cchase not the other way
2018-11-07 07:54:01 PM angelagalloway I have a former school teacher who has Alz. Especially during crafts she will suddenly jump up and ask where her students are. I simply tell her it is recess time and she sits back down and continues on as nothing happened.
2018-11-07 07:54:01 PM tjoned yes
2018-11-07 07:54:02 PM alexisl yes indeed
2018-11-07 07:54:04 PM smccormick absolutely
2018-11-07 07:54:06 PM tonjarobles yes live in their moment
2018-11-07 07:54:08 PM tcrute13 true
2018-11-07 07:54:19 PM labara was always told to live in their moment yes
2018-11-07 07:54:21 PM trinawh some are constantly looking for a particular family member. i say that if is see them i'll direct them their way. they forget in a few seconds anyway. it's better to go with the flow i think
2018-11-07 07:54:24 PM cchase watch out for rugs and patterns on the floor
2018-11-07 07:54:25 PM lmiller3 well said
2018-11-07 07:54:34 PM smccormick why
2018-11-07 07:54:37 PM cchase they can perceive them as holes
2018-11-07 07:54:41 PM schweitzerkl that is so true!!
2018-11-07 07:54:45 PM alexisl yes they can
2018-11-07 07:54:46 PM smccormick good to know
2018-11-07 07:54:46 PM tjoned ok
2018-11-07 07:54:49 PM trinawh live in their moment... i like that
2018-11-07 07:54:56 PM trinawh i guess that's what i've been doing
2018-11-07 07:54:59 PM cchase an area rug near the bed might mean a big hole next to the bed for someone
2018-11-07 07:55:09 PM angelagalloway Today I was told that we can't bring them to our reality so we have to go to theirs.
2018-11-07 07:55:10 PM alexisl right
2018-11-07 07:55:10 PM smccormick makes sense
2018-11-07 07:55:14 PM schweitzerkl we have light flooring then it has a dark line across it and you see alot of residents step over it
2018-11-07 07:55:24 PM tcrute13 right
2018-11-07 07:55:26 PM cchase if you jump into their world they will feel validated
2018-11-07 07:55:31 PM cchase they will fell understood
2018-11-07 07:55:37 PM tonjarobles yes
2018-11-07 07:55:39 PM dustylann true
2018-11-07 07:55:41 PM cchase they will feel a little less lost
2018-11-07 07:55:41 PM trinawh absolutely
2018-11-07 07:55:42 PM alexisl yes
2018-11-07 07:55:43 PM tcrute13 yes
2018-11-07 07:55:46 PM smccormick agree
2018-11-07 07:55:47 PM labara and maybe bring us out of the reality of this world for a litte ;)
2018-11-07 07:55:50 PM tjoned i aagree
2018-11-07 07:55:50 PM lmiller3 yup
2018-11-07 07:55:50 PM trinawh explain more about the area rug
2018-11-07 07:55:54 PM cchase that's what you want for them
2018-11-07 07:56:04 PM alexisl labara so true
2018-11-07 07:56:06 PM smccormick yes i do
2018-11-07 07:56:09 PM cchase their perceptual ability declines
2018-11-07 07:56:24 PM trinawh so they think it's a person or body?
2018-11-07 07:56:26 PM cchase so they see that rug as a hole in the floor
2018-11-07 07:56:36 PM trinawh ohhhh I see
2018-11-07 07:56:37 PM schweitzerkl yes they do
2018-11-07 07:56:46 PM cchase it's a holw a nasty dark hole they will fall in
2018-11-07 07:56:48 PM trinawh wow
2018-11-07 07:56:53 PM tjoned yes you will see them scoot away from them
2018-11-07 07:56:55 PM alexisl wow
2018-11-07 07:56:57 PM smccormick that can be very scary for them
2018-11-07 07:56:58 PM trinawh such a scary world to live in
2018-11-07 07:57:05 PM tjoned or step over them
2018-11-07 07:57:22 PM cchase anyone have any last questions
2018-11-07 07:57:29 PM dustylann not at this time
2018-11-07 07:57:33 PM tonjarobles no
2018-11-07 07:57:33 PM trinawh what a great chat. i learned a lot. thank you
2018-11-07 07:57:35 PM tjoned no
2018-11-07 07:57:37 PM labara this was very informational thank you
2018-11-07 07:57:39 PM tonjarobles thank you so much!!!
2018-11-07 07:57:40 PM cchase did you all learn tonight
2018-11-07 07:57:45 PM tonjarobles yes
2018-11-07 07:57:50 PM smccormick i do not, thank you i learned alot!
2018-11-07 07:57:52 PM trinawh hopefully next time my internet won't flip out :(
2018-11-07 07:57:53 PM schweitzerkl yes!!
2018-11-07 07:57:57 PM angelagalloway Yes!
2018-11-07 07:57:57 PM tjoned i learned alot in this little bit of time
2018-11-07 07:58:01 PM lmiller3 what activities work best at kyour facility besides music
2018-11-07 07:58:02 PM lauravillatoro1989 this was a very interesting chat!
2018-11-07 07:58:11 PM trinawh painting
2018-11-07 07:58:13 PM cchase I am an email away if you have a question
2018-11-07 07:58:17 PM alexisl i loved this chat
2018-11-07 07:58:20 PM dustylann thanks
2018-11-07 07:58:23 PM smccormick i enjoyed our chat tonight
2018-11-07 07:58:26 PM schweitzerkl thank you
2018-11-07 07:58:27 PM tonjarobles thanks so much
2018-11-07 07:58:29 PM alexisl sounds great
2018-11-07 07:58:33 PM smccormick .thank you
2018-11-07 07:58:35 PM lauravillatoro1989 thank you!
2018-11-07 07:58:36 PM tjoned thanks for the information
2018-11-07 07:58:37 PM cchase so glad that you enjoyed... mostly that you learned
2018-11-07 07:58:38 PM angelagalloway Thank you for all the helpful information!
2018-11-07 07:58:42 PM labara nice chatting with you all!
2018-11-07 07:58:49 PM lmiller3 I like these smaller chats. way more information and easier to follow along
2018-11-07 07:58:58 PM cchase you are all good listeners
2018-11-07 07:58:59 PM schweitzerkl agree lmiller
2018-11-07 07:59:05 PM tonjarobles have a great night
2018-11-07 07:59:10 PM alexisl thank you i learned so much and i kow there is more to learn
2018-11-07 07:59:12 PM trinawh have a good night
2018-11-07 07:59:16 PM labara goodnight all!
2018-11-07 07:59:18 PM alexisl thank you
2018-11-07 07:59:19 PM tjoned good night guys
2018-11-07 07:59:19 PM dustylann good night all
2018-11-07 07:59:19 PM smccormick good night all !!
2018-11-07 07:59:22 PM cchase (})
2018-11-07 07:59:25 PM labara left the chat room
2018-11-07 07:59:26 PM schweitzerkl night all!
2018-11-07 07:59:27 PM lmiller3 night
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2018-11-07 07:59:34 PM alexisl good night everyone
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2018-11-07 07:59:45 PM cchase be safe and be well everyone
2018-11-07 07:59:45 PM lauravillatoro1989 good night everyone
2018-11-07 07:59:56 PM trinawh you as well
2018-11-07 07:59:56 PM alexisl you do the same
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2018-11-07 08:00:09 PM cchase ty
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2018-11-07 08:00:15 PM cchase (F)
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2018-11-07 08:15:45 PM wanzaella did i miss it?
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2018-11-11 07:27:53 PM lurban1 did I miss it?
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2018-11-14 07:03:21 PM wanzaella good evening
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2018-11-14 07:07:25 PM wanzaella am i in the wrong chat
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2018-11-20 06:09:36 PM wandaliznatal i dont know is my first time
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2018-11-21 07:02:44 PM molleem The email said 8est.
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2018-11-21 07:05:59 PM malloryjbean Did I miss the chat? I thought they were at 8 pm est?
2018-11-21 07:06:20 PM scoltey left the chat room
2018-11-21 07:06:55 PM malloryjbean Maybe there is no specialty chat b/c of the holiday?
2018-11-21 07:07:17 PM molleem I'm confused too, the email said 8.
2018-11-21 07:07:45 PM malloryjbean I know the regular chat was last night
2018-11-21 07:08:40 PM malloryjbean Wait...i think there is a week where there isn't a specialty chat. This is the 3rd wednesday.
2018-11-21 07:09:06 PM molleem There was a post in the forum, no chat tonight.
2018-11-21 07:09:26 PM malloryjbean Okay! THANKS! See you next week!
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2018-11-22 07:26:30 PM diannekilroy hello
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