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2014-05-28 06:37:09 PM kleson03 redirection to change the area, mood
2014-05-28 06:37:15 PM cchase let's clarify this
2014-05-28 06:37:33 PM janice13 change of location or activity
2014-05-28 06:37:34 PM cchase redirection is what needs to happen when behavior becomes a problem
2014-05-28 06:37:43 PM tammy73 i find the way that works most of the time is validation then finding a way to ask them for there "help" with something
2014-05-28 06:37:43 PM kleson03 yes
2014-05-28 06:37:47 PM duresaw okay
2014-05-28 06:37:48 PM cchase GOLDEN RULE
2014-05-28 06:37:58 PM cchase never, never, never, never argue
2014-05-28 06:38:04 PM duresaw agree
2014-05-28 06:38:05 PM cchase YOU WILL LOSE
2014-05-28 06:38:05 PM janice13 it is no use
2014-05-28 06:38:06 PM kerrid asking them is important...and yes, validate
2014-05-28 06:38:15 PM amanda33 yes and behaviot happen 3 on T my place
2014-05-28 06:38:15 PM kerrid nod and smile
2014-05-28 06:38:17 PM janice13 they are always right no matter what
2014-05-28 06:38:21 PM pawood very true
2014-05-28 06:38:23 PM tammy73 its there world at the time
2014-05-28 06:38:31 PM cchase okay so the answer is to redirect
2014-05-28 06:38:32 PM kleson03 validate and tell them lead
2014-05-28 06:38:38 PM duresaw sometimes I play along...is that good or bad>
2014-05-28 06:38:49 PM kimholbrook and stay calm
2014-05-28 06:39:00 PM amanda33 play aliong
2014-05-28 06:39:04 PM cchase play along is great if everyone is safe and sound
2014-05-28 06:39:19 PM cchase redirect if safety becomes an issue
2014-05-28 06:39:32 PM pawood always play along if they believe it dont shatter their world
2014-05-28 06:39:32 PM cchase okay here's a few examples - ready??
2014-05-28 06:39:36 PM duresaw I think it depends on the situation
2014-05-28 06:39:38 PM janice13 yes
2014-05-28 06:39:40 PM kleson03 yes
2014-05-28 06:39:45 PM duresaw ready
2014-05-28 06:39:53 PM kimholbrook ready
2014-05-28 06:40:00 PM kerrid yes
2014-05-28 06:40:03 PM pawood yes
2014-05-28 06:40:12 PM janice13 share away
2014-05-28 06:40:13 PM cchase okay - this is a classic story tell me what you would do
2014-05-28 06:40:14 PM tammy73 yes
2014-05-28 06:40:23 PM amanda33 yes
2014-05-28 06:40:24 PM kerrid ok
2014-05-28 06:40:26 PM duresaw ok
2014-05-28 06:40:32 PM kimholbrook ok
2014-05-28 06:40:45 PM ginad Okay!
2014-05-28 06:40:47 PM cchase Tim is up in the middle of the night and is determined to go outside in the rain for a walk - what do you do??
2014-05-28 06:40:55 PM cchase one at a time
2014-05-28 06:41:03 PM cchase answer pls
2014-05-28 06:41:19 PM pawood take him for a walk around the unit and show himthe rain outside thru the window
2014-05-28 06:41:21 PM janice13 take him for a walk somewhere else in the building
2014-05-28 06:41:39 PM dbrewer get him an umbrella
2014-05-28 06:41:39 PM cchase he is not worried about the rain
2014-05-28 06:41:42 PM janice13 give him a rain coat if there is no thunder or lighting
2014-05-28 06:41:46 PM pawood tell him the next nice day we will go for a walk outside in the garden
2014-05-28 06:42:02 PM duresaw I would get an umbrella and walk with him
2014-05-28 06:42:06 PM tammy73 explain the rain and offer to sit a talk with a cup of tea until it stops
2014-05-28 06:42:08 PM janice13 offer him a snack or drink in the cafe
2014-05-28 06:42:18 PM kerrid I would check with the aide to be sure that there isn't something keeping him up...like haveing to use the bathroom. THen take him for a walk
2014-05-28 06:42:24 PM cchase raincoat, umbrella -- hmmm nice
2014-05-28 06:42:31 PM ginad Take him for a walk, with an umbrella, and maybe sit with him under outside under the canopy.
2014-05-28 06:42:34 PM amanda33 walk w him in rain
2014-05-28 06:42:38 PM cchase cup of tea!! hmmm then what??
2014-05-28 06:42:48 PM kerrid around the unit - we have a courtyard area that we can go into that is outside
2014-05-28 06:42:51 PM janice13 talk, movie or read a book
2014-05-28 06:42:56 PM janice13 if he likes that
2014-05-28 06:42:59 PM cchase good kerri about checking for bathrm
2014-05-28 06:43:15 PM janice13 have him help you plan the next activity
2014-05-28 06:43:16 PM cchase let's talk about redirection
2014-05-28 06:43:19 PM kleson03 i would walk him around and if that doesn't work ofer him a shower because thats what the rain is going to give hom but kinda make it funny.
2014-05-28 06:43:21 PM kimholbrook try to get him thinking about something else
2014-05-28 06:43:21 PM cchase in this case
2014-05-28 06:43:46 PM cchase nice one with taking a shower
2014-05-28 06:43:47 PM amanda33 talke and remove from situatuion
2014-05-28 06:43:50 PM kleson03 would try to redirect him by washing his hands in running water maybe
2014-05-28 06:43:57 PM cchase yes kim think about something else
2014-05-28 06:44:14 PM cchase like that cup of tea??
2014-05-28 06:44:17 PM janice13 what does he want for breakfast
2014-05-28 06:44:30 PM kerrid ask him about stories...did he ever go camping in the rain?
2014-05-28 06:44:32 PM cchase or maybe a sandwich - make his favorite PBJ
2014-05-28 06:44:45 PM janice13 ask him to help set up a snack
2014-05-28 06:44:47 PM pawood talk about what he did as a child when it would rain outside
2014-05-28 06:44:49 PM cchase chat about a nightime story
2014-05-28 06:44:57 PM amanda33 maybe reminisce w him
2014-05-28 06:44:58 PM janice13 read bedtime stories
2014-05-28 06:44:59 PM kerrid we live in the NW...everyone has a good camping in the rain story
2014-05-28 06:45:18 PM cchase yes sleepy stories . .. hmm yawn some
2014-05-28 06:45:20 PM tammy73 reminise about child hood memeories in the rain withe the cup of TEA
2014-05-28 06:45:33 PM cchase yawn some more
2014-05-28 06:45:34 PM amanda33 yes
2014-05-28 06:45:42 PM duresaw reminisce is good
2014-05-28 06:45:42 PM kerrid yes, yawn...that's good
2014-05-28 06:45:52 PM janice13 get a blanket and cuddle up
2014-05-28 06:45:52 PM cchase yawning is rather contancious
2014-05-28 06:45:55 PM duresaw agree
2014-05-28 06:45:56 PM kerrid I just might put myself to sleep
2014-05-28 06:45:57 PM cchase sp??
2014-05-28 06:46:10 PM cchase you get him to feel sleepy
2014-05-28 06:46:22 PM cchase let's take a walk to his bedroom
2014-05-28 06:46:26 PM amanda33 yep
2014-05-28 06:46:27 PM kerrid blankets, favorite pillow and stuffed animal
2014-05-28 06:46:38 PM cchase ohh nice and cozy there - yawn some more
2014-05-28 06:46:39 PM kleson03 okay maybe rock in a rocking chair
2014-05-28 06:46:42 PM cchase yes kerri
2014-05-28 06:46:52 PM cchase yes kleson
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2014-05-28 06:46:56 PM tammy73 soft lights quiet voice
2014-05-28 06:46:59 PM amanda33 favorite pf
2014-05-28 06:47:01 PM janice13 i want a rocking chair
2014-05-28 06:47:05 PM kerrid me too
2014-05-28 06:47:06 PM cchase good good folks
2014-05-28 06:47:11 PM kerrid rocking chair would be great
2014-05-28 06:47:17 PM pawood warm his blanket in the dryer and wrap him in it to make him cozy
2014-05-28 06:47:23 PM cchase got it!!! (:o)
2014-05-28 06:47:25 PM kerrid maybe even some soft music
2014-05-28 06:47:25 PM duresaw I think in a real situation we will know what to do
2014-05-28 06:47:31 PM janice13 yep,
2014-05-28 06:47:49 PM cchase do not tell him that he cannot go out
2014-05-28 06:47:57 PM kerrid No, never!
2014-05-28 06:48:03 PM cchase he will be upset that you spoke to him like a child
2014-05-28 06:48:03 PM duresaw no bad idea
2014-05-28 06:48:08 PM janice13 why would you do that
2014-05-28 06:48:12 PM cchase he is an adult
2014-05-28 06:48:14 PM kimholbrook no. just try to redirect
2014-05-28 06:48:17 PM amanda33 no never
2014-05-28 06:48:23 PM duresaw redirect
2014-05-28 06:48:28 PM janice13 speak to him with respect
2014-05-28 06:48:36 PM cchase afterall!!!({)
2014-05-28 06:48:39 PM duresaw with a happy face
2014-05-28 06:48:46 PM kerrid Always be respectful
2014-05-28 06:48:56 PM cchase okay one more - ready??
2014-05-28 06:49:01 PM duresaw yes
2014-05-28 06:49:02 PM janice13 yes
2014-05-28 06:49:05 PM kimholbrook yes
2014-05-28 06:49:07 PM pawood okay
2014-05-28 06:49:08 PM ginad Yes
2014-05-28 06:49:11 PM kerrid I always think that someday I might be there....so treat people kindly.
2014-05-28 06:49:13 PM kerrid yes
2014-05-28 06:49:18 PM amanda33 yep
2014-05-28 06:49:36 PM duresaw treat them the way you want to be treated
2014-05-28 06:49:42 PM duresaw okay ready
2014-05-28 06:49:50 PM cchase Mary daughter always come to get her for dinner every Wednesday
2014-05-28 06:50:04 PM kleson03 yes treat them the way u want someone to treat your parents
2014-05-28 06:50:21 PM duresaw yes
2014-05-28 06:50:22 PM cchase this day she arrived at Mom's house and Mom was all ready in her coat waiting at the door
2014-05-28 06:50:28 PM amanda33 and takes mom to dining hall
2014-05-28 06:50:44 PM cchase so she guided her mom into the car and off they went
2014-05-28 06:51:00 PM cchase to their favorite restaurant
2014-05-28 06:51:00 PM janice13 did she have clothes on under the coat
2014-05-28 06:51:06 PM cchase as usual
2014-05-28 06:51:11 PM duresaw okay
2014-05-28 06:51:18 PM cchase funny Janice!!! :)
2014-05-28 06:51:27 PM kerrid legit question
2014-05-28 06:51:29 PM cchase you peeked
2014-05-28 06:51:37 PM amanda33 only bra no coat or shirt
2014-05-28 06:51:39 PM janice13 nope just thinking
2014-05-28 06:51:49 PM cchase indeed when Mary took off her coat she only had a slip on
2014-05-28 06:51:54 PM cchase what to do folks
2014-05-28 06:52:07 PM amanda33 daughter cbecked mom out before leavjng
2014-05-28 06:52:16 PM cchase to late now
2014-05-28 06:52:19 PM duresaw If I was the daughter I would probably freak out but not going to show it
2014-05-28 06:52:20 PM janice13 nope daughter thought all was well
2014-05-28 06:52:33 PM kerrid well, talk about how cold it is in the resturant and keep your own jacket on....
2014-05-28 06:52:39 PM janice13 i might say that it is cold in here and maybe we should keep on our coats
2014-05-28 06:52:41 PM pawood if the daughter called the facility i would run out with a set of clothes for her to enjoy her time out with her daughter
2014-05-28 06:52:43 PM tammy73 ooohh thats a tough one
2014-05-28 06:52:52 PM kleson03 ofer mom the coat because u dont want her to be chillie
2014-05-28 06:52:55 PM ginad Mary's daughter should suggest that she keep her coat on
2014-05-28 06:53:05 PM kerrid are we answering as the daughter?
2014-05-28 06:53:13 PM tammy73 talk b
2014-05-28 06:53:18 PM cchase yes you are the daughter
2014-05-28 06:53:19 PM duresaw I would just observe her for a few days
2014-05-28 06:53:23 PM amanda33 gst a blankey
2014-05-28 06:53:24 PM pawood i would also be truely asshamed for the staff not checking to make sure she was completely dressed appropriately
2014-05-28 06:53:32 PM tammy73 about it being chilly and hope she puts the coat back on
2014-05-28 06:53:39 PM pawood UTI work up
2014-05-28 06:53:41 PM cchase love it tammy
2014-05-28 06:53:47 PM cchase yes
2014-05-28 06:54:00 PM duresaw I would not take the jacket off
2014-05-28 06:54:04 PM kerrid exactly....talk about how cold it is.
2014-05-28 06:54:04 PM cchase say it's cold ac must be turn way up
2014-05-28 06:54:13 PM cchase put your own coat back on
2014-05-28 06:54:19 PM kerrid we must be sitting right under the AC unit....
2014-05-28 06:54:30 PM cchase yes right under it aren't we??
2014-05-28 06:54:33 PM tammy73 touch her hand and say how cold they r
2014-05-28 06:54:34 PM janice13 I would put my coat back on and say maybe we should go somewhere warmer or get our meal to go tonight
2014-05-28 06:54:41 PM duresaw its freezing in here
2014-05-28 06:54:43 PM kimholbrook right and hope she puts her coat back on
2014-05-28 06:54:57 PM cchase there you go!! good work folks
2014-05-28 06:55:03 PM kleson03 would let them know that theres something going on with mom could be uti,or medications not taken or working different assesment needs to be done
2014-05-28 06:55:09 PM cchase what just happened here??
2014-05-28 06:55:20 PM kerrid what's that movie where the dad always takes his pants off.....even in the airport resturant??
2014-05-28 06:55:24 PM janice13 we redirected very well
2014-05-28 06:55:26 PM kimholbrook what if she doesn't put her coat back on? Then what do you do?
2014-05-28 06:55:31 PM duresaw mom is showing some type of memory loss
2014-05-28 06:55:38 PM cchase you would not say this in from of MOM about uti or meds!!!!
2014-05-28 06:55:39 PM amanda33 take her home
2014-05-28 06:56:02 PM kerrid No, not in front of mom
2014-05-28 06:56:04 PM cchase just saw that movie
2014-05-28 06:56:12 PM kerrid great movie
2014-05-28 06:56:21 PM kleson03 no i won't say it in front of mother but to the staff in charge.
2014-05-28 06:56:21 PM cchase you helped Mom to feel good about herself
2014-05-28 06:56:22 PM tammy73 if not could always say ur not feeling well and need her help back to car
2014-05-28 06:56:32 PM cchase you got her coat back on
2014-05-28 06:56:33 PM pawood mom may find nothing wrong especially if memory is slipping and may become hostile if not feeling well
2014-05-28 06:56:46 PM duresaw My husband gma had dementia and everyone was upset when they found out
2014-05-28 06:56:47 PM cchase and Mom is happy - happy no behavior problems
2014-05-28 06:56:51 PM janice13 if her coat is on and the setting is still good eat
2014-05-28 06:57:00 PM janice13 enjoy the rest of the night
2014-05-28 06:57:03 PM kleson03 enjoy
2014-05-28 06:57:08 PM amanda33 exactally
2014-05-28 06:57:08 PM kerrid yup
2014-05-28 06:57:31 PM pawood good night my family is waiting to eat 9 pm here
2014-05-28 06:57:33 PM cchase yes allow her the priviledge of having some time with her wonderful daughter - she deserves that
2014-05-28 06:57:38 PM pawood left the chat room
2014-05-28 06:57:45 PM cchase okay that''s all folks
2014-05-28 06:57:45 PM janice13 she worked hard for it
2014-05-28 06:57:47 PM kimholbrook yes
2014-05-28 06:57:52 PM cchase hope you enjoyed this chat
2014-05-28 06:57:54 PM janice13 thanks for the great chat
2014-05-28 06:57:55 PM duresaw thanks for the good information
2014-05-28 06:58:00 PM kerrid Thank you!
2014-05-28 06:58:03 PM kimholbrook Thank You
2014-05-28 06:58:09 PM cchase any questions please feel free to email me anytime at all
2014-05-28 06:58:10 PM duresaw great chat...
2014-05-28 06:58:14 PM amanda33 thanks so much was great
2014-05-28 06:58:15 PM kleson03 very interesting THANK YOU!:)
2014-05-28 06:58:15 PM janice13 thank you
2014-05-28 06:58:17 PM ginad Thank you!
2014-05-28 06:58:25 PM cchase cchase@activitydirector.com
2014-05-28 06:58:26 PM kerrid Have a great night everyone
2014-05-28 06:58:28 PM duresaw good night
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2014-05-28 06:58:32 PM tammy73 thx for the great chat
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2014-05-28 06:58:35 PM kleson03 GOOD NIGHT ALL.
2014-05-28 06:58:37 PM tammy73 night all
2014-05-28 06:58:37 PM cchase nighty night everyone
2014-05-28 06:58:42 PM cchase God Bless
2014-05-28 06:58:42 PM duresaw night
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2014-05-28 06:58:49 PM amanda33 can u email me sensory ideas i need help
2014-05-28 06:59:02 PM kimholbrook good night. Thank You for the information
2014-05-28 06:59:05 PM amanda33 good night
2014-05-28 06:59:08 PM cchase okay amanda will do - check for it tomorrow
2014-05-28 06:59:30 PM kleson03 I COULD USE SOME SENSORY IDEALS TOO.
2014-05-28 06:59:42 PM amanda33 lets lower functioning i i have brain frezze lol
2014-05-28 06:59:45 PM cchase okay kleson
2014-05-28 06:59:53 PM cchase lol
2014-05-28 06:59:55 PM amanda33 ty
2014-05-28 07:00:02 PM cchase (lol)
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2014-05-28 07:00:22 PM amanda33 night
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2014-05-28 07:43:24 PM deloisea hello everyone
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2014-06-02 12:48:05 PM miria2006 hiiii
2014-06-02 12:48:13 PM miria2006 how is everyone
2014-06-02 12:48:32 PM miria2006 does anyone else think this course is slightly difficult
2014-06-02 12:48:43 PM miria2006 :'(
2014-06-02 12:48:50 PM miria2006 ({)
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2014-06-02 07:33:22 PM deloisea Hello everyone. Miria I am on task, but I do find this course a little difficult from time to time
2014-06-02 07:34:51 PM deloisea i am very interested in the assistance living because I want to open up my an assistance living facility and do some activities in the facility.
2014-06-02 07:47:41 PM deloisea good night vevryone
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