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2016-02-24 07:25:50 PM awatts one of my members thinks he is in high school as he was class predient
2016-02-24 07:25:56 PM cchase yes kathy go along with whatever name they want you to be
2016-02-24 07:25:57 PM pittman08 i have a resident daughter that her mom tells her that ask her were she is referring to her as a child
2016-02-24 07:25:58 PM awatts oops president
2016-02-24 07:25:59 PM connie47 it is the saddest disease. I hope I never get it.
2016-02-24 07:26:07 PM pittman08 she just cant adapt
2016-02-24 07:26:12 PM michellep007 Thanks cchase. I didn't know that.
2016-02-24 07:26:15 PM patty4 arguing doesn't help right cchase?
2016-02-24 07:26:15 PM connie47 why are the men sexual sometimes?
2016-02-24 07:26:17 PM kathym that makes me feel better.
2016-02-24 07:26:20 PM kgates I had a resident tell me my dog was Chester her old dog, and she believed it was her dog. I still take my dog Coalby to see her but I allow her to call her Chester.
2016-02-24 07:26:22 PM cchase step into their world
2016-02-24 07:26:22 PM skershaw lol..connie, i am already getting it
2016-02-24 07:26:33 PM jackie26 i do
2016-02-24 07:26:33 PM cchase they cannot step into yours!
2016-02-24 07:26:33 PM awatts connie47 because their filter goes away
2016-02-24 07:26:42 PM amber5 Sometimes, they never loose their libido.
2016-02-24 07:26:51 PM cindic I had a husband ask his wife if she would marry him.. He really didn't recall that they were married in the last 10yrs. we held a wedding for them.. He was the happiest man alive that day.
2016-02-24 07:26:54 PM jackie26 just pretend
2016-02-24 07:27:00 PM belindaf one resident sees her grown cildren and doesnt know who they are, nice visitors though
2016-02-24 07:27:03 PM caitlinm to me, the men seem like their re-discovering what "feels good" to them, just like boys do
2016-02-24 07:27:03 PM maribel why is that my staff tells me all the stoires of the inappropriate sexual things the residents say to them
2016-02-24 07:27:04 PM cchase correct filters do change or almost non existent
2016-02-24 07:27:09 PM connie47 I really don't have the problem with their advances, but my nursing staff does.
2016-02-24 07:27:12 PM sue123 Yes exactly , talk to them as if you are in their present.
2016-02-24 07:27:34 PM cchase filters are gone - they swear.. talk sexually etc.
2016-02-24 07:27:38 PM awatts heck Im called their girlfriend at work....
2016-02-24 07:28:00 PM chiquita8 i know if is hard for the residents but to see their children cry becuase their mommy doesnt know them. Crushing!!
2016-02-24 07:28:02 PM connie47 If they say something inappropriate then I put my hands on my hips and say, "Now is that how you are to talk to a lady?" and they say, "No" then no more problem with me. LOL
2016-02-24 07:28:02 PM awatts its sometimes flattering
2016-02-24 07:28:08 PM reneebragg no filters they are living in the past
2016-02-24 07:28:10 PM cchase they are not being disresptful just cannot filte.. it is said before they know they said it
2016-02-24 07:28:12 PM nancyzmc The nursing staff should be better trained
2016-02-24 07:28:14 PM sue123 Meds can add to that problem too.
2016-02-24 07:28:23 PM jackie26 exactly
2016-02-24 07:28:40 PM cchase another point: remember that they are adults
2016-02-24 07:28:50 PM kimj yes
2016-02-24 07:28:51 PM patty4 that's difficult because of the disease
2016-02-24 07:28:53 PM cchase please, do not speak to them like children
2016-02-24 07:28:57 PM jackie26 and smart
2016-02-24 07:29:00 PM skershaw we have a man that likes to hug the girls... i mean hug,, like he presses himself against them.
2016-02-24 07:29:03 PM jackie26 i dont
2016-02-24 07:29:06 PM cchase they feel that and do not like that
2016-02-24 07:29:09 PM connie47 they get pissed if you treat them like a child
2016-02-24 07:29:09 PM awatts if a patient has frontal temperal lobe dementia they will have no more filters
2016-02-24 07:29:10 PM amber5 I don't.
2016-02-24 07:29:11 PM skershaw i just shake his hand...
2016-02-24 07:29:12 PM kgates Yes, they needed to be treated like adults, thats for sure.
2016-02-24 07:29:26 PM cchase yes connie some get angry for sure
2016-02-24 07:29:27 PM patty4 respect is always good
2016-02-24 07:29:30 PM sue123 Yes, I hate the baby talk, be respectful . Call them by correct name too, Not grandma or pa
2016-02-24 07:29:38 PM reneebragg amen we have a staff member that speak to our Residents like they are children and half dead makes me mad
2016-02-24 07:29:43 PM kimj are we suppose to give them their privacy ?
2016-02-24 07:29:44 PM nancyzmc It's disrespectful to treat them as children
2016-02-24 07:29:46 PM chiquita8 that is for sure!
2016-02-24 07:29:48 PM connie47 some will say "Im not a child" or "Im not dumb"
2016-02-24 07:29:50 PM cchase I hear staff say... honey now you know better than that
2016-02-24 07:29:55 PM cindic Privacy, Absolutely.
2016-02-24 07:30:00 PM jackie26 yes connie same here
2016-02-24 07:30:08 PM cchase no honey... sweetheart
2016-02-24 07:30:09 PM jackie26 me too
2016-02-24 07:30:11 PM patty4 honey gets used a lot
2016-02-24 07:30:20 PM jackie26 i heard that too
2016-02-24 07:30:30 PM cindic they don't give up their rights to privacy just because their are in one of our units.
2016-02-24 07:30:33 PM connie47 the hardest thing for me is to see and hear a patient say like today, "there is something wrong with me, but I don't know what."
2016-02-24 07:30:33 PM kgates What? I sure wouldn't want anyone to say that to my Mom with Alzheimers.
2016-02-24 07:30:35 PM reneebragg yes it does
2016-02-24 07:30:37 PM sue123 I hate it when people call me honey .
2016-02-24 07:30:39 PM cchase another: I just told you!!! never, never say that
2016-02-24 07:30:40 PM amber5 No. Use Mr., Mrs, or their first name.
2016-02-24 07:30:42 PM jackie26 it is not proper
2016-02-24 07:30:50 PM belindaf i wouldnt want my aparents treated that way
2016-02-24 07:30:57 PM kathym if we said stuff like that around her, we would definitley hear bout it. We have continuing education about how to treat them with respect and dignity.
2016-02-24 07:31:04 PM jackie26 exactly belinda
2016-02-24 07:31:13 PM connie47 true, you treat them the way you would want to be treated in the same situation
2016-02-24 07:31:13 PM patty4 what's that cchase?
2016-02-24 07:31:15 PM belindaf thats how I treat my residnets
2016-02-24 07:31:18 PM karic They will never remember that you just told them something.
2016-02-24 07:31:21 PM cindic our facility requests that unless the resident requests it, we are to call them Mr/Mrs. xyz
2016-02-24 07:31:35 PM awatts i never will say honey sweatheart or any of those words not allowed as disrespect to the members
2016-02-24 07:31:41 PM nancyzmc Some nursing staff says the "I just told you" - apparently THEY don't remember why the residents live there!
2016-02-24 07:31:44 PM patty4 oh I see..."I just told you"
2016-02-24 07:31:46 PM reneebragg correcting them is wrong isn't it better sometimes just pretend you didn't hear it. getting on to them is sad and wrong
2016-02-24 07:31:49 PM sue123 I just told you is demeaning.
2016-02-24 07:32:03 PM jackie26 yes
2016-02-24 07:32:03 PM maribel i like that Nancy
2016-02-24 07:32:07 PM teresab left the chat room
2016-02-24 07:32:07 PM belindaf yes its like they ar 4 again
2016-02-24 07:32:11 PM awatts sue123 it is demeaning
2016-02-24 07:32:15 PM cchase another rule: it is ok to cue respectfully but never touch without telling them what you are going to do
2016-02-24 07:32:18 PM sue123 Getting on to them is abuse.
2016-02-24 07:32:18 PM patty4 Do housekeeping get some training?
2016-02-24 07:32:29 PM awatts cchase correct.....
2016-02-24 07:32:31 PM jackie26 yes
2016-02-24 07:32:39 PM nancyzmc Agreed
2016-02-24 07:32:45 PM reneebragg yes
2016-02-24 07:32:47 PM jackie26 and talk to them face to face
2016-02-24 07:32:52 PM cchase thanks awatts 8-)
2016-02-24 07:32:54 PM kimj I have a resident who asks me about 10 times a day ( What time is it). I just answer the question every time she asks
2016-02-24 07:33:00 PM nancyzmc Good point Jackie
2016-02-24 07:33:01 PM connie47 I bend down to get eye to eye contact
2016-02-24 07:33:02 PM sue123 When I was in housekeeping we all had to watch Alzheimers films.
2016-02-24 07:33:05 PM cchase good kim
2016-02-24 07:33:09 PM awatts many rules apply when working with the elderly with all the state and federal regulations
2016-02-24 07:33:12 PM kgates No, I would want someone to let me know what they are doing. So for a resident with Alzheimers we should always let them know what's next.
2016-02-24 07:33:12 PM reneebragg talk to them face to face and with respect
2016-02-24 07:33:16 PM kathym We are told to look them in the face and with a proper distance, so we are not int heir zone, let them know what is going to take place so that they are not scared out of thier wits.
2016-02-24 07:33:17 PM amber5 Yes cchase. Always tell them what you are going to do or plan on doing. It can be scary for them if someone just comes up behind them and starts to push their wheelchair.
2016-02-24 07:33:23 PM cchase yes connie always make eye to eye contact.
2016-02-24 07:33:24 PM caitlinm It's just rude in general to not be face to face with someone when talking to them
2016-02-24 07:33:41 PM kathym and yes, you have to be very respectful about it.
2016-02-24 07:33:44 PM cchase never approach or touch them from behind
2016-02-24 07:33:52 PM belindaf always tell them who you are and what you are about to do
2016-02-24 07:34:00 PM kimj I always make eye to eye contact. I always put myself in their shoes to.
2016-02-24 07:34:01 PM jackie26 yes
2016-02-24 07:34:07 PM connie47 what is odd is sometimes my patients have to come back and they remember my name. But, this is before they get toooo bad.
2016-02-24 07:34:12 PM pittman08 i do as well
2016-02-24 07:34:16 PM cchase never move them in a wheelchair without telling them that they will be moved.
2016-02-24 07:34:24 PM patty4 Is it OK to touch their forearm to get attention? It seems to help some so much
2016-02-24 07:34:24 PM kimj right
2016-02-24 07:34:24 PM nancyzmc Some nursing staff need to hear these reminders - especially about pushing residents in their w/cs w/o warning and coming up from behind . . .
2016-02-24 07:34:27 PM belindaf i ask it sif ok
2016-02-24 07:34:33 PM jackie26 i teach other staff about it
2016-02-24 07:34:34 PM awatts i once had an activities assistant who thought it was funny to joke with the members and sometimes he would scare them.... FIRED
2016-02-24 07:34:35 PM michellep007 Yes, I always try to put myself in their place
2016-02-24 07:34:36 PM caitlinm Sometimes just smiling at them will help settle or cheer them up
2016-02-24 07:34:37 PM sue123 We have a resident that ask us if it is Bingo day.. She will ask 10 times a day , everyone just tells her if it is or not. Shuld not be a big deal.
2016-02-24 07:34:44 PM kimj i ask them if I can take them
2016-02-24 07:34:49 PM cchase yes patty if you first made eye to eye contact to let them know you are there
2016-02-24 07:34:52 PM kathym i do sometimes forget and come up from behind because i am in a hurry, but i will apologize and let them know what i was going to ask them.
2016-02-24 07:35:00 PM nancyzmc Or making them get up out of bed so they can complete their assignments even when the residents wants to stay in bed longer
2016-02-24 07:35:01 PM patty4 OK - good
2016-02-24 07:35:04 PM kgates It could scare them and not trust you if you come up from behind. I noticed a lot of PT's do that, they just walk up and grab a resident, but now are being trained ahead of time not to do that. It scares the resident and disturbs what they are doing, even if its nothing.
2016-02-24 07:35:09 PM belindaf ask permission before you do anythign, also, ask if they want to spend time with you
2016-02-24 07:35:17 PM pittman08 eye level i have a residetn who is hunched over in a wheel chair i lkneel on my knees to her level and i am the one she comes to when she \has a problem because i give her that respect
2016-02-24 07:35:18 PM connie47 my male patient gets startled even when he takes a first drink of something and he knows what flavor it is because he asked for it.
2016-02-24 07:35:19 PM kimj right
2016-02-24 07:35:21 PM chiquita8 has anyone been through the BBET program.
2016-02-24 07:35:27 PM kimj no
2016-02-24 07:35:35 PM belindaf bbet whats that
2016-02-24 07:35:36 PM pittman08 all about respect
2016-02-24 07:35:39 PM awatts kgates right on
2016-02-24 07:35:39 PM nancyzmc What is the BBET program
2016-02-24 07:35:42 PM maribel what is a BBET program
2016-02-24 07:35:47 PM amber5 What is that chiquita8?
2016-02-24 07:35:58 PM jackie26 what is that chiquita
2016-02-24 07:36:14 PM awatts pittman08 yup its all about respect
2016-02-24 07:36:31 PM cchase has anyone seen the first 50 dates??? the actor forgets her boyfriend every morning...
2016-02-24 07:36:33 PM connie47 this is a wonderful group
2016-02-24 07:36:37 PM patty4 What are good activities for memory care patients
2016-02-24 07:36:39 PM connie47 yes
2016-02-24 07:36:40 PM belindaf yes I love that movie
2016-02-24 07:36:41 PM chiquita8 it is a program that teachs you how to handle the residents and why they are the way they are. I learened so much for that program
2016-02-24 07:36:42 PM cindic yes
2016-02-24 07:36:43 PM patty4 Yes - I love that movie
2016-02-24 07:36:46 PM kimj yes
2016-02-24 07:36:48 PM jackie26 no
2016-02-24 07:36:48 PM amber5 Yes. I have. Good movie.
2016-02-24 07:36:48 PM nancyzmc yes
2016-02-24 07:36:50 PM sue123 Love 50 First Dates.
2016-02-24 07:36:50 PM reneebragg yes love that movie but so sad to
2016-02-24 07:36:52 PM caitlinm bbet is for behavior based ergonomics therapies
2016-02-24 07:36:53 PM karic I love that movie
2016-02-24 07:36:56 PM patty4 I love it that she watches a video every morning in the end
2016-02-24 07:36:56 PM cchase remember how he reminded her
2016-02-24 07:36:59 PM awatts connie47 yes a lot of great talk
2016-02-24 07:37:00 PM skershaw good comparison
2016-02-24 07:37:07 PM amber5 Yes. Repetition.
2016-02-24 07:37:08 PM belindaf pictures
2016-02-24 07:37:10 PM cchase it was very loving and respectful
2016-02-24 07:37:14 PM reneebragg every day and every minute
2016-02-24 07:37:18 PM connie47 yep
2016-02-24 07:37:19 PM tonic yes a video
2016-02-24 07:37:21 PM kimj yep
2016-02-24 07:37:25 PM kathym i saw it the other night. i felt bad for him, but he handled it well, no, GREAT!!!!!
2016-02-24 07:37:30 PM cchase she felt that and responded to it
2016-02-24 07:37:31 PM sue123 We are putting up a board with month and date on it and change it daily.
2016-02-24 07:37:32 PM chiquita8 yes caitlinm
2016-02-24 07:37:32 PM amber5 Going to the same places and doing the same things as the first time he met her and music.
2016-02-24 07:37:47 PM kgates Nope havn't seen it
2016-02-24 07:37:50 PM patty4 We had a patient tie photo's to his walker of his life and he would review them several times a day.
2016-02-24 07:37:57 PM chiquita8 yes caitilnm
2016-02-24 07:37:58 PM reneebragg He was always so loving and nurturing
2016-02-24 07:37:59 PM awatts HAS ANYONE SEEN OR READ THE BOOK "STILL ALICE"
2016-02-24 07:38:02 PM connie47 a lot of the patient's actions depend upon the tone I give to them I think.
2016-02-24 07:38:03 PM cchase I have my staff watch that
2016-02-24 07:38:09 PM tonic Thats great patty4
2016-02-24 07:38:10 PM jackie26 no
2016-02-24 07:38:11 PM kimj aww how sweet Patty
2016-02-24 07:38:15 PM cchase still alice is also required viewing
2016-02-24 07:38:23 PM sue123 Familys can put names on pictures in their room, I like seeing that.
2016-02-24 07:38:26 PM amber5 Awatts, not yet, but I want to.
2016-02-24 07:38:28 PM kimj I have the book
2016-02-24 07:38:29 PM cchase body language...
2016-02-24 07:38:29 PM awatts OR THE BOOK 36 HOUR DAY
2016-02-24 07:38:44 PM connie47 yes
2016-02-24 07:38:46 PM cchase remember not to stand like you are scolding them
2016-02-24 07:38:55 PM awatts ITS A GOOD MOVIE BUT THE BOOK IS BETTER
2016-02-24 07:38:59 PM reneebragg so true
2016-02-24 07:39:00 PM sue123 I have not seen Still Alice. I will put that on my must see movies.
2016-02-24 07:39:01 PM patty4 good idea about posture
2016-02-24 07:39:03 PM cchase yes 36 hours is good
2016-02-24 07:39:03 PM kimj agreed
2016-02-24 07:39:11 PM summermurphy Sometimes I feel like my days are 36 hours long ... lol
2016-02-24 07:39:12 PM kimj 36hr?
2016-02-24 07:39:14 PM cchase another is alive inside
2016-02-24 07:39:25 PM kgates We have learned not to look at the disease, but the person with it. Put ourselves in their shoes, be compassionate about who they are.
2016-02-24 07:39:26 PM kimj never heard of it is it a new movie?
2016-02-24 07:39:29 PM patty4 oh my!
2016-02-24 07:39:31 PM karic I need to watch these movies
2016-02-24 07:39:33 PM cchase you can see the video online
2016-02-24 07:39:33 PM reneebragg haven't heard of that one celeste
2016-02-24 07:39:52 PM belindaf dont know that one
2016-02-24 07:39:52 PM karic More work:P
2016-02-24 07:39:54 PM jackie26 i will see them
2016-02-24 07:39:56 PM awatts WHEN A CAREGIVER OR FAMILY MEMBER IS HAVING A HARD TIME WITH THEIR LOVED ONE WE ASK THEM TO READ THE BOOK 36 HOUR DAY
2016-02-24 07:39:56 PM kgates Where online?
2016-02-24 07:40:01 PM kathym when i talk with the resident, if i am standing i will bend down to their eye level and talk with them. they don't feel like you are lording anything over them.
2016-02-24 07:40:05 PM connie47 Guarding Tess was a good movie, too. President's widow at dementia issues.
2016-02-24 07:40:11 PM cchase all good information but I train my staff primarily on behaviors and how to redirect
2016-02-24 07:40:27 PM jackie26 maybe youtube?
2016-02-24 07:40:29 PM kimj notebook
2016-02-24 07:40:31 PM cchase google video: alive inside
2016-02-24 07:40:35 PM awatts CONNIE47 WILL CHECK THAT ONE OUT
2016-02-24 07:40:36 PM cchase yes utubbe
2016-02-24 07:40:41 PM cchase ope u tube
2016-02-24 07:40:47 PM cchase oh well
2016-02-24 07:40:51 PM kimj lol
2016-02-24 07:40:52 PM jackie26 lol
2016-02-24 07:40:55 PM nancyzmc What are some of your most effective redirection techniques, Ms. Celeste?
2016-02-24 07:40:59 PM kimj its ok
2016-02-24 07:41:03 PM kathym A Vow to CHerish is another good move about alzheimers.
2016-02-24 07:41:05 PM michellep007 the Notebook is an excellent movie
2016-02-24 07:41:12 PM pittman08 we were going to have a lunch & learn and show that movie "still alice"
2016-02-24 07:41:13 PM kgates We learn that too to redirect, rediirect, redirect. It works the best in almost every situation.
2016-02-24 07:41:17 PM kimj yes it is my favorite
2016-02-24 07:41:17 PM jackie26 i saw the notebook
2016-02-24 07:41:17 PM amber5 I wish my facility had more training about Alzhemer's and dementia.
2016-02-24 07:41:28 PM skershaw has anyone ever had thier center to the dementia training? its where you have special goggles on and headphones that play really loud with all differenet noises. then the staff gives you a list of things to do.... its hard
2016-02-24 07:41:30 PM pittman08 But decided on "alive inside"
2016-02-24 07:41:33 PM cchase here is another case study.. ready???
2016-02-24 07:41:38 PM patty4 Notebook - I read it aloud over the summer and then we watched the movie ... no dry eyes!
2016-02-24 07:41:42 PM kathym okay
2016-02-24 07:41:44 PM cindic I find I struggle with redirecting because I am a one person with a group of residents. Any ideas on group activties to redirect vs just one on one redirection.
2016-02-24 07:41:44 PM belindaf 12 minutes in alzhimers
2016-02-24 07:41:47 PM patty4 ok
2016-02-24 07:41:47 PM summermurphy yes
2016-02-24 07:41:54 PM karic Ive done the demntia training
2016-02-24 07:41:55 PM awatts AMBER5 HAVE THE STAFF TAKE THE 36 HOUR COURSE.... ITS GREAT
2016-02-24 07:41:59 PM karic Ready
2016-02-24 07:42:05 PM cindic ready
2016-02-24 07:42:09 PM reneebragg we just had a dementia in service today and they said white is a color that we should use
2016-02-24 07:42:17 PM cchase we call that VDT training... let's get back to that in a minute
2016-02-24 07:42:24 PM michellep007 yes
2016-02-24 07:42:26 PM amber5 I would love that awatts!
2016-02-24 07:42:30 PM reneebragg we shouldnt use white
2016-02-24 07:42:47 PM awatts GET MORE INVOLVED IN YOUR LOCAL ALHZEIMERS ASSOCIATION
2016-02-24 07:43:12 PM cchase case study: Jane gets picked up by her daughter every wed. to go out for dinner
2016-02-24 07:43:26 PM reneebragg ok
2016-02-24 07:43:32 PM awatts AT MY FACILITY I HAVE THE ACTIVITIES ASSISTANCE TAKE MANDITORY COURSES TO KEEP THEM UP TO DATE
2016-02-24 07:43:40 PM pittman08 ok
2016-02-24 07:43:40 PM cchase this time her daughter arrives and jane is ready and waiting
2016-02-24 07:43:50 PM cchase they go to the restaurant
2016-02-24 07:43:54 PM kathym alright
2016-02-24 07:44:01 PM cchase once at the table...
2016-02-24 07:44:28 PM cchase Jane removes her coat & she only has a bra and panties on.. what to do??
2016-02-24 07:44:34 PM amber5 awatts, I'm not an AD yet, but I can definately recommend having a training course.
2016-02-24 07:44:38 PM connie47 oh my
2016-02-24 07:44:44 PM pittman08 hmmm
2016-02-24 07:44:48 PM belindaf put her coatt back on by saying arent you cold
2016-02-24 07:44:52 PM jackie26 put it back
2016-02-24 07:44:52 PM sue123 Just put the coat back on , no big deal.
2016-02-24 07:44:56 PM nancyzmc Button Jane's coat back up, have Jane's daughter keep her coat on, and have a great lunch
2016-02-24 07:44:56 PM awatts AMBER5 GREAT IDEA
2016-02-24 07:44:57 PM pittman08 say mom lets head to the restroom
2016-02-24 07:44:58 PM michellep007 calmly ask if you can put her coat back on
2016-02-24 07:45:01 PM kimj put the coat back on her and ask her if she is cold
2016-02-24 07:45:02 PM chiquita8 put her coat back on
2016-02-24 07:45:05 PM skershaw calmly ask her why and tell her i need to put her coat back on.
2016-02-24 07:45:11 PM cindic put the coat back on .
2016-02-24 07:45:12 PM cchase no no do not just put the coat on she is an adult
2016-02-24 07:45:23 PM pittman08 and place that coat on we are bit underdressed forthis restaraunt
2016-02-24 07:45:25 PM kathym that's what i would do.
2016-02-24 07:45:26 PM connie47 say, "It's chilly in here, can we put your coat back on so you don't get chilled and catch a cold?
2016-02-24 07:45:34 PM kgates Well in that moment, I would say lets get your coat back on, lets go shopping for some new clothes then go out to eat ok?
2016-02-24 07:45:35 PM cchase how do you get her to put the coat back on
2016-02-24 07:45:39 PM caitlinm That's a problem with the CNAs, that they did not ensure she was properly dressed to leave the building
2016-02-24 07:45:39 PM kimj ask her if its okay to put the coat back on
2016-02-24 07:45:42 PM sue123 I really dont need to know why, she just did it, Make the most of it.
2016-02-24 07:45:44 PM jackie26 talk nicely
2016-02-24 07:45:44 PM nancyzmc Put your coat back on
2016-02-24 07:45:46 PM tonic Tell her how beautiful it is.
2016-02-24 07:45:46 PM reneebragg ask her if she is cold and would like to put her coat on
2016-02-24 07:45:58 PM cchase yes NANCY
2016-02-24 07:45:59 PM awatts ITS GREAT FOR THE STAFF TO STAY INFORMED AND IT REALLY HELPS THE FAMILIES INVOLVED DURING CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUPS
2016-02-24 07:46:00 PM pittman08 we are under dressed
2016-02-24 07:46:00 PM cindic I would put mine back on with her and say boy its cold. lets up it back on.. if she sees someone else with it she might be more
2016-02-24 07:46:10 PM cchase awesome
2016-02-24 07:46:12 PM caitlinm Tell her you feel cold and put your coat on. Ask, "it's cold in here, aren't you cold?" to suggest it
2016-02-24 07:46:13 PM jackie26 so she copy you
2016-02-24 07:46:13 PM belindaf always ask before
2016-02-24 07:46:16 PM summermurphy Place her coat back on and take her to get dressed and back out again... not a big thing. Then I would address staffing with the lack of making sure she was ready to go (with clothes on).
2016-02-24 07:46:20 PM cchase you put your coatback on...
2016-02-24 07:46:23 PM sue123 If you put your coat back on , she sshould put hers on with no troulbe.
2016-02-24 07:46:33 PM cchase yes - she is likely to copy without a fuss
2016-02-24 07:46:36 PM belindaf shi is shadowing
2016-02-24 07:46:39 PM pittman08 o yes
2016-02-24 07:46:41 PM kimj yes
2016-02-24 07:46:49 PM jackie26 yes
2016-02-24 07:46:52 PM cchase got it?? it works
2016-02-24 07:46:56 PM kimj yes
2016-02-24 07:46:57 PM pittman08 then address the staff in a nice manner
2016-02-24 07:47:01 PM reneebragg yes
2016-02-24 07:47:02 PM tonic yes
2016-02-24 07:47:04 PM cchase we call that mirror
2016-02-24 07:47:13 PM amber5 Very good idea about putting your coat back on. I don't think I would have thought of that.
2016-02-24 07:47:13 PM belindaf better word
2016-02-24 07:47:16 PM cchase no arguements
2016-02-24 07:47:18 PM jackie26 exactly a mirror
2016-02-24 07:47:25 PM awatts ITS SO CUTE AT LUNCHTIME WITH THE MEMBERS AT THE LOWER FUNCTION TABLE THEY WATCH WHAT EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING TO HELP THEM EAT
2016-02-24 07:47:27 PM michellep007 mirror, gottcha

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