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2018-03-07 07:41:36 PM cchase you break the task into chunks of actions
2018-03-07 07:41:43 PM sylmat6 oh
2018-03-07 07:41:49 PM terrymoore So true
2018-03-07 07:41:53 PM abanks all makes sense
2018-03-07 07:41:55 PM jesjtipton nice cchase!
2018-03-07 07:41:59 PM cchase most helpful with short term memory
2018-03-07 07:42:03 PM sfaria chunking might help them feel more successful and accomlished
2018-03-07 07:42:04 PM dpackard is it called asphagia when the individual thinks ne thing but says another
2018-03-07 07:42:13 PM cchase yes... very good sfaria
2018-03-07 07:42:21 PM jogood self worth
2018-03-07 07:42:21 PM jesjtipton yes sfaria
2018-03-07 07:42:29 PM jpocorello001 good sfaria!
2018-03-07 07:42:29 PM abanks keeps there independance
2018-03-07 07:42:35 PM cchase yes... when they accomplish what you asked them one step at a time
2018-03-07 07:42:43 PM jogood self pride
2018-03-07 07:42:48 PM cchase yes
2018-03-07 07:42:51 PM amymc independence
2018-03-07 07:42:57 PM cchase indeed
2018-03-07 07:42:58 PM sylmat6 they feel acomplished
2018-03-07 07:42:58 PM sfaria promoting a better sense of self
2018-03-07 07:43:06 PM jogood and they SMILE
2018-03-07 07:43:11 PM jogood then I smile
2018-03-07 07:43:12 PM cchase to get less behavioral issues as you would
2018-03-07 07:43:19 PM cchase you are so so so so pleasant
2018-03-07 07:43:25 PM sfaria thats the best part of the day, when they smile
2018-03-07 07:43:27 PM jogood always
2018-03-07 07:43:27 PM cchase you smile,,,smile
2018-03-07 07:43:31 PM sylmat6 makes them feel good
2018-03-07 07:43:38 PM cchase if you are able you give them a choice
2018-03-07 07:43:41 PM jogood they smile back
2018-03-07 07:43:46 PM sylmat6 i agree
2018-03-07 07:43:47 PM jesjtipton Its hard not to smile back!
2018-03-07 07:43:50 PM cchase but allow it to be only between two things
2018-03-07 07:43:51 PM jogood jut two tho
2018-03-07 07:43:56 PM jogood hahaha
2018-03-07 07:43:59 PM lphillips I loev to see the residents smile
2018-03-07 07:44:08 PM sfaria choice encourages independence
2018-03-07 07:44:18 PM cchase too many things to choose is hard for them
2018-03-07 07:44:18 PM amymc What do you do with the residents with later stage dementia?
2018-03-07 07:44:21 PM jogood and except no for an answer
2018-03-07 07:44:22 PM jesjtipton this or that
2018-03-07 07:44:34 PM jesjtipton here or there
2018-03-07 07:44:35 PM cchase say which sweater do you want to wear
2018-03-07 07:44:36 PM jogood then ask again later
2018-03-07 07:44:44 PM cchase the blue one goes with your eyes
2018-03-07 07:44:51 PM cchase they will choose the blue one
2018-03-07 07:44:55 PM jogood the green on eis soft
2018-03-07 07:44:55 PM sfaria any resident can still make a simple choice
2018-03-07 07:45:01 PM cbockis nice
2018-03-07 07:45:10 PM terrymoore Makes my heart happy, when they smile
2018-03-07 07:45:16 PM jesjtipton soft suggestions with compliments
2018-03-07 07:45:23 PM sfaria good idea
2018-03-07 07:45:23 PM cchase yes... again they choose but you have encouraged that choice
2018-03-07 07:45:26 PM sylmat6 alot of encouragement
2018-03-07 07:45:29 PM cchase gently
2018-03-07 07:45:39 PM jogood look them in the eyes and you can see their reactions
2018-03-07 07:45:39 PM scarvalho09 give them time be patient with the individual
2018-03-07 07:45:41 PM cchase never, never, never, argue
2018-03-07 07:45:44 PM cchase you will loose
2018-03-07 07:45:46 PM lphillips soft gentle aproach
2018-03-07 07:45:51 PM cchase they cannot rationalize
2018-03-07 07:45:52 PM jogood no need to argue
2018-03-07 07:45:55 PM cchase so you will loose
2018-03-07 07:45:55 PM jesjtipton You won't win!
2018-03-07 07:45:58 PM jogood just coax
2018-03-07 07:45:59 PM sfaria you willl always lose the argument
2018-03-07 07:46:00 PM cbockis never tell them NO
2018-03-07 07:46:02 PM amymc I agree
2018-03-07 07:46:06 PM cchase never approach two people at the same time
2018-03-07 07:46:14 PM lphillips why
2018-03-07 07:46:16 PM cchase one person each time
2018-03-07 07:46:23 PM abanks always in front of them
2018-03-07 07:46:25 PM jogood dont yell or raise your voice
2018-03-07 07:46:29 PM scarvalho09 they will become confused and aggitated
2018-03-07 07:46:30 PM abanks not over them
2018-03-07 07:46:31 PM cbockis say your sorry. dont take it personally
2018-03-07 07:46:35 PM cchase do a tag team if that is best
2018-03-07 07:46:37 PM jesjtipton at their level..
2018-03-07 07:46:42 PM abanks at there level
2018-03-07 07:46:49 PM jesjtipton eye to eye if possible
2018-03-07 07:46:58 PM jogood let them think its their idea
2018-03-07 07:46:59 PM cchase always eye to eye
2018-03-07 07:47:02 PM dcorvin always in front of of them
2018-03-07 07:47:07 PM sfaria some become buddy buddy and insist on being together at all times
2018-03-07 07:47:07 PM amymc don't get to close. You might get hit
2018-03-07 07:47:09 PM sylmat6 never from behind
2018-03-07 07:47:19 PM jogood never from ehind
2018-03-07 07:47:24 PM cchase yu make it possible..unless your waiting for behavior issues
2018-03-07 07:47:27 PM jesjtipton I have to stand in a chair for one of our guys.. but he laughs..
2018-03-07 07:47:31 PM sfaria always let them know what your going to do before you do it
2018-03-07 07:47:38 PM cchase yes.. there some combative folks
2018-03-07 07:47:50 PM cchase do keep arms length with those residents
2018-03-07 07:47:56 PM jogood aproach like you want to be approched
2018-03-07 07:47:56 PM amymc Men seem to be more aggressive
2018-03-07 07:47:58 PM jesjtipton never approach from behind
2018-03-07 07:48:00 PM lphillips most of the residents form small social groups its interesting to see the resdients find each other and are always together. I alway aproach residents in grops or alone. I go with the flow of the conversation.
2018-03-07 07:48:05 PM cchase always ask if it is ok to sit next to them
2018-03-07 07:48:06 PM dpackard we have two ladies that have become best friends and they are always together
2018-03-07 07:48:07 PM sfaria never over whelm them either
2018-03-07 07:48:29 PM cchase here is a story..interested to see your answers..ready??
2018-03-07 07:48:33 PM jogood ask their permission to "enter their space"
2018-03-07 07:48:35 PM jesjtipton ready
2018-03-07 07:48:36 PM abanks yup
2018-03-07 07:48:41 PM sylmat6 yes
2018-03-07 07:48:42 PM jogood yep
2018-03-07 07:48:43 PM dcorvin ready
2018-03-07 07:48:45 PM terrymoore yes
2018-03-07 07:48:48 PM amymc yes
2018-03-07 07:48:52 PM scarvalho09 yes
2018-03-07 07:48:59 PM cchase you are all coming up with great ideas
2018-03-07 07:49:16 PM cchase this is a story about Mary who picks her mom up every wed for dinner
2018-03-07 07:49:21 PM sylmat6 but
2018-03-07 07:49:47 PM cchase she arrived at mom's house and found that mom was all ready to go out for dinner
2018-03-07 07:50:04 PM cchase she had her coat on... so off they went to dinner
2018-03-07 07:50:28 PM cchase when they arrived at the rest. table Mary took her coat off....and so did her mother
2018-03-07 07:50:55 PM cchase but her mother was only wearing a slip..nothing else... what would you do????
2018-03-07 07:51:11 PM sfaria put her coat back on and continue with the dinner
2018-03-07 07:51:17 PM amymc I would have her put her coat back on
2018-03-07 07:51:22 PM jogood slip her coat back on and sit and eat
2018-03-07 07:51:22 PM cbockis go with the flow
2018-03-07 07:51:26 PM dcorvin take her coat and cover her up
2018-03-07 07:51:26 PM abanks quickly put my mothers coat back on her
2018-03-07 07:51:28 PM scarvalho09 I would keep my coat on and tell mom its chilly in here play the roll
2018-03-07 07:51:30 PM sfaria A big scene would have made her very anxious
2018-03-07 07:51:31 PM amymc and eat dinner
2018-03-07 07:51:40 PM sfaria YUP
2018-03-07 07:51:44 PM dpackard i would say Mom It's a little chilly in here maybe we shoulld put our coats back on
2018-03-07 07:51:45 PM sylmat6 gentley tell mom that is too cold in rest. to keep coat on
2018-03-07 07:51:55 PM jpocorello001 yes put the coat back on and just keep talking and eating dinner
2018-03-07 07:52:00 PM jesjtipton Bless her heart. ask if she is cold, tell I was cold and put on my coat. Ask her if she wants to put on her coat
2018-03-07 07:52:00 PM jogood go aloong with the flow
2018-03-07 07:52:01 PM cbockis i want to live in a society of acceptance. This should be the norm.
2018-03-07 07:52:05 PM lphillips I would pt her coat back on and i wold as well andpolity ask my mo to come with me to the ca.
2018-03-07 07:52:14 PM cchase scarvalho and dpackard are on it as well as those that say go with the flow
2018-03-07 07:52:15 PM sfaria You have to go with it.....
2018-03-07 07:52:26 PM cchase tell her it's chill and put your coat back on
2018-03-07 07:52:27 PM terrymoore Put my coat on and ask her to put her coat on,
2018-03-07 07:52:31 PM cchase she will do the same
2018-03-07 07:52:37 PM cchase good terry
2018-03-07 07:52:38 PM jogood yep
2018-03-07 07:52:48 PM cchase never just put her coat on...
2018-03-07 07:52:54 PM cchase you want to save her dignity
2018-03-07 07:53:03 PM dcorvin true
2018-03-07 07:53:04 PM cchase and allow her to do the right thing
2018-03-07 07:53:12 PM cchase she will copy what you do
2018-03-07 07:53:19 PM jogood yes she will
2018-03-07 07:53:26 PM jesjtipton She is watching to see what you do
2018-03-07 07:53:34 PM cchase Oh...mom it's so chilly . gona have to put my coat on
2018-03-07 07:53:34 PM jesjtipton yes she will
2018-03-07 07:53:36 PM jogood at least she had a slip on
2018-03-07 07:53:40 PM sfaria trust is important
2018-03-07 07:53:44 PM cbockis good one
2018-03-07 07:53:50 PM jesjtipton yes jogood!
2018-03-07 07:53:50 PM scarvalho09 the role is revered mom looks up to daughter for reassurance <3
2018-03-07 07:53:59 PM jogood apsolutly
2018-03-07 07:54:05 PM cchase right she must trust you...so if you just run to put her coat on... she will be upset
2018-03-07 07:54:10 PM jpocorello001 to make her feel comfortable he daughter can pkeep the jacket on to
2018-03-07 07:54:12 PM terrymoore never embarrass her
2018-03-07 07:54:12 PM amymc very true
2018-03-07 07:54:22 PM abanks true
2018-03-07 07:54:36 PM cchase so it takes a little strategy
2018-03-07 07:54:37 PM jogood the less noise you make the less attention drawn to it
2018-03-07 07:54:44 PM jpocorello001 the* keep*
2018-03-07 07:54:48 PM jesjtipton Upsetting her could cause more issues
2018-03-07 07:54:57 PM cchase to get done what you need without allow your resident to loose face
2018-03-07 07:54:57 PM scarvalho09 what about if mom had an accident during dinner?
2018-03-07 07:55:06 PM sfaria I guess its good to be thinking ahead, plan for what may happen
2018-03-07 07:55:23 PM jogood be sure to check mom next wednesday lunch date
2018-03-07 07:55:51 PM cchase mom should be were pads...special underpants etc. at this point
2018-03-07 07:55:52 PM jogood what would you do if yur child had an acident?
2018-03-07 07:55:54 PM jesjtipton Yes! For sure look next time.. :)
2018-03-07 07:56:12 PM jogood people are human
2018-03-07 07:56:18 PM dpackard maybe put her outfit together for her the night before and put where she can see it
2018-03-07 07:56:21 PM abanks take theem to the bathroom and clean them up
2018-03-07 07:56:24 PM sfaria Ending with a funny story......goodnight all. Everyone stay safe in the storm.
2018-03-07 07:56:27 PM cchase you always want to preserve their dignity
2018-03-07 07:56:34 PM sfaria left the chat room
2018-03-07 07:56:35 PM jpocorello001 amen! jogood. we are all human!
2018-03-07 07:56:37 PM sylmat6 get involved with mom's ADL
2018-03-07 07:56:38 PM jesjtipton Maybe play it off with telling her she looks so beautiful or help her pick something to match you
2018-03-07 07:56:40 PM scarvalho09 thank you Cchase
2018-03-07 07:56:40 PM jogood ALWYAYS SAVE FACE
2018-03-07 07:56:47 PM cbockis a great message
2018-03-07 07:56:52 PM amymc good story
2018-03-07 07:56:55 PM jogood thank you ladies and gents ...be safe
2018-03-07 07:56:58 PM cchase great chat folks....lights blinking again
2018-03-07 07:57:00 PM lphillips thank yo
2018-03-07 07:57:02 PM cchase ops
2018-03-07 07:57:07 PM jogood good night
2018-03-07 07:57:10 PM abanks night all
2018-03-07 07:57:10 PM lphillips you
2018-03-07 07:57:10 PM cbockis thank you. be safe
2018-03-07 07:57:11 PM jesjtipton thank you cchase!
2018-03-07 07:57:11 PM dpackard I always tell them "it happens to me too"
2018-03-07 07:57:13 PM amymc night
2018-03-07 07:57:13 PM abanks :)
2018-03-07 07:57:14 PM cchase be well and be safe
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2018-03-07 07:57:16 PM scarvalho09 good night thank you
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2018-03-07 07:57:24 PM sylmat6 VERY INTERESTING, GOOD NIGHT AND THANK YOU ALL
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2018-03-07 07:57:44 PM terrymoore Thanks learned alot tonight
2018-03-07 07:57:52 PM jpocorello001 night abanks and amyc!
2018-03-07 07:57:56 PM cchase glad you learned
2018-03-07 07:58:04 PM jpocorello001 this was a good chat everyone!
2018-03-07 07:58:05 PM cchase (})
2018-03-07 07:58:24 PM terrymoore (F)
2018-03-07 07:58:40 PM dpackard goodnight, sorry i missed half of the chat. will try to get on from the beginning next time
2018-03-07 07:58:54 PM cchase we started at 8 pm est
2018-03-07 07:59:03 PM cchase catch up with us next time
2018-03-07 07:59:30 PM cchase be well
2018-03-07 07:59:31 PM dpackard i will thank you
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2018-03-07 08:00:53 PM terrymoore Good night
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2018-03-07 08:01:52 PM cchase take care terry
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2018-03-07 08:02:11 PM terrymoore You too
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2018-03-07 08:06:51 PM jpocorello001 goodnight cchase! thank you for your time :)
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2018-03-19 06:12:35 PM abanks how do i miss these speciality chats?
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2018-03-21 05:52:17 PM ruthiesister welcome
2018-03-21 05:52:37 PM amymc Hello
2018-03-21 05:53:35 PM ruthiesister wow i made it ,, was getting worried ,, damn comp , being a pain
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2018-03-21 05:54:46 PM ruthiesister i know it old , but i haven't use it and it did want to get going ,, and last wk we had a big storm and the power went out and i haven;t fired it up since and it wasn't happy about that i guess
2018-03-21 05:55:01 PM sylmat6 enter the chat room
2018-03-21 05:55:15 PM sylmat6 hi everyone!
2018-03-21 05:55:24 PM ruthiesister welcome
2018-03-21 05:55:30 PM amymc Well at least it is working now
2018-03-21 05:55:40 PM terrymoore Hello everyone
2018-03-21 05:56:00 PM sylmat6 whats the topic today?
2018-03-21 05:56:34 PM ruthiesister had a relay for life meeting and of course now I'm feeling rushed ,
2018-03-21 05:57:04 PM ruthiesister mm i have a couple things in mind , to talk about
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2018-03-21 05:57:07 PM amymc I feel like that is the story of my life:)
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2018-03-21 05:57:43 PM sylmat6 is it time for relay for life already
2018-03-21 05:57:45 PM ruthiesister welcome
2018-03-21 05:57:52 PM kristenamrein Hi all!
2018-03-21 05:58:00 PM ruthiesister I'm on the committee , for our county
2018-03-21 05:58:13 PM ruthiesister and we have ours in april ,
2018-03-21 05:58:27 PM ruthiesister which is one of the things we are going to talk about
2018-03-21 05:58:38 PM jpocorello001 Hello everyone
2018-03-21 05:58:46 PM sylmat6 when is that gonna happen
2018-03-21 05:58:46 PM sylmat6 need to check on that for our area
2018-03-21 05:59:05 PM ruthiesister ok, so those that are here ,,i need your mep and start date
2018-03-21 05:59:21 PM jpocorello001 Hey kristen. I wil be in the other chat room too
2018-03-21 05:59:32 PM jpocorello001 Jessica Yost-MEPAP1-120517
2018-03-21 05:59:33 PM amymc Amy Cass MEPAP1-020618
2018-03-21 05:59:41 PM sylmat6 MEPAP1-010218
2018-03-21 05:59:45 PM kristenamrein ME 010218, Ruthie
2018-03-21 05:59:54 PM kristenamrein And it's MEPAP 1
2018-03-21 06:00:35 PM ruthiesister terry
2018-03-21 06:00:40 PM terrymoore Terry Moore ME1-020618 2-06-2018
2018-03-21 06:01:04 PM ruthiesister ok,, soooo welcome I'm ruthie
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2018-03-21 06:01:14 PM kristenamrein Hi Ruthie!
2018-03-21 06:01:23 PM sylmat6 HI
2018-03-21 06:01:30 PM terrymoore Hi Ruthie
2018-03-21 06:01:35 PM jpocorello001 Hello Ruthie!
2018-03-21 06:01:35 PM amymc Hello
2018-03-21 06:01:49 PM ruthiesister so how know what swingbed is or has a little idea of it
2018-03-21 06:01:52 PM jmarick MEPAP1-020618
2018-03-21 06:02:12 PM amymc not sure I know much about it
2018-03-21 06:02:16 PM kristenamrein I have a little idea. I know it's more of a short-term stay
2018-03-21 06:02:19 PM sylmat6 beds in rural areas hospitals
2018-03-21 06:02:28 PM terrymoore A little
2018-03-21 06:02:57 PM terrymoore Short term Rehabilition?
2018-03-21 06:02:59 PM ruthiesister yep .. so it was set up to help rural hosp,and ltc
2018-03-21 06:03:11 PM ruthiesister right all those are the right answer ,
2018-03-21 06:03:22 PM ruthiesister how many of you have something like that
2018-03-21 06:03:33 PM amymc We have a rehab wing
2018-03-21 06:03:35 PM sylmat6 not me
2018-03-21 06:03:40 PM terrymoore No
2018-03-21 06:03:48 PM kristenamrein Not me anymore, I just switched jobs
2018-03-21 06:04:20 PM ruthiesister ok,, so this chat can also help in your LTC also
2018-03-21 06:04:59 PM ruthiesister i feel any activities with your patients /resident is helpful would you all agree
2018-03-21 06:05:00 PM kristenamrein Good, because that's what I switched to, LTC/ALF
2018-03-21 06:05:10 PM amymc of coure
2018-03-21 06:05:11 PM terrymoore Yes
2018-03-21 06:05:13 PM amymc course
2018-03-21 06:05:13 PM jpocorello001 yes
2018-03-21 06:05:15 PM sylmat6 we have short term stay residents that are there for rehab only..
2018-03-21 06:05:16 PM kristenamrein I think so, it gets them out of their rooms
2018-03-21 06:05:18 PM jmarick yes, absolutely
2018-03-21 06:05:36 PM ruthiesister ok,, so some of you heard me talk about the relay for life ,
2018-03-21 06:05:42 PM kristenamrein Some may not have family to come visit, so coming to activities may help with depression
2018-03-21 06:05:47 PM amymc the rehab residents aren't interested in much activity though. We are told they want to focus on rehab
2018-03-21 06:06:10 PM sylmat6 so true amymc
2018-03-21 06:06:25 PM ruthiesister will i my hear to help you get both rehab and ltc patients involved
2018-03-21 06:06:27 PM jmarick same here, but I have gotten them to come out for groups. They will warm up usually and come hang out to get out of their rooms for a change
2018-03-21 06:06:48 PM jpocorello001 what are some activities do yall do in short term facility
2018-03-21 06:07:06 PM ruthiesister your right your rehab patients they say are just there for rehab and don't want to do act ,,
2018-03-21 06:07:25 PM ruthiesister but there are many way to help get those people invilved

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