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2014-10-29 06:36:20 PM momma2 its sad but that kind of stuff happens
2014-10-29 06:36:20 PM steelers7311 thanks
2014-10-29 06:36:26 PM steelers7311 everytime
2014-10-29 06:36:34 PM cchase find a way to make the message clear keeping respect
2014-10-29 06:36:39 PM steelers7311 at least she didnt forget her slip
2014-10-29 06:36:53 PM tamialfonso i know a lady put 2 pair of nylons on and walked to the store
2014-10-29 06:36:54 PM tbender lol
2014-10-29 06:36:55 PM cchase she didn't have much on
2014-10-29 06:36:59 PM jessica12 if she insists she is ok then let it be, if she is not showing anything she shouldnt, dont make a scene
2014-10-29 06:37:09 PM cchase right
2014-10-29 06:37:11 PM cchase good
2014-10-29 06:37:23 PM cchase so what have we learned??
2014-10-29 06:37:33 PM steelers7311 there are plenty of ppl who wear less than a slip to restaurants and they are of sound mind
2014-10-29 06:37:40 PM jessica12 dont embarras them
2014-10-29 06:37:42 PM momma2 never tell, samplle and suggest
2014-10-29 06:37:47 PM steelers7311 'showing not telling not preaching
2014-10-29 06:37:55 PM steelers7311 not telling them no
2014-10-29 06:38:00 PM cchase yes good good
2014-10-29 06:38:11 PM tamialfonso dont tell them they are wrong, dont push them
2014-10-29 06:38:14 PM cchase they are adults always remember that
2014-10-29 06:38:24 PM steelers7311 true true
2014-10-29 06:38:25 PM conniedeel we need to show respect be careful what you say and how you handle the situation
2014-10-29 06:38:29 PM momma2 that was neat cchase
2014-10-29 06:38:41 PM cchase :)
2014-10-29 06:38:51 PM momma2 another?
2014-10-29 06:38:57 PM cchase there are so much more examples
2014-10-29 06:39:00 PM cchase okay
2014-10-29 06:39:03 PM steelers7311 very valuable lesson if i take an alz resident out to lunch
2014-10-29 06:39:31 PM cchase so Tim always goes to the bathroom everywhere in the apartment
2014-10-29 06:39:45 PM cchase spouse has tried leaving alight on at night
2014-10-29 06:39:59 PM cchase but hubby still goes anywhere
2014-10-29 06:40:03 PM cchase what to do??
2014-10-29 06:40:13 PM steelers7311 sign for bathroom
2014-10-29 06:40:19 PM steelers7311 picture of toilet
2014-10-29 06:40:21 PM tamialfonso get up with him
2014-10-29 06:40:29 PM steelers7311 assist him to the bathroom
2014-10-29 06:40:34 PM momma2 sign in each room with arrow
2014-10-29 06:40:42 PM tbender have spouse announce when she needs to go to the bathroom, and announce that she wll use the toilet
2014-10-29 06:40:44 PM conniedeel wake him up and ask him it he needs to go
2014-10-29 06:40:49 PM steelers7311 commode
2014-10-29 06:41:08 PM conniedeel bright sign
2014-10-29 06:41:12 PM steelers7311 oh b&b prtocol time check bathroom every twohours
2014-10-29 06:41:13 PM cchase so let's break this down
2014-10-29 06:41:16 PM momma2 inform him she has to go and ask if he wants to as well?
2014-10-29 06:41:17 PM jessica12 close all doors except for bathroom and leave the light on
2014-10-29 06:41:28 PM tbender hubby might reassociate the thought 'I need to go to the bthroom' with the bathrrom
2014-10-29 06:41:47 PM cchase how can you help him from needing to go at night?
2014-10-29 06:41:56 PM steelers7311 depends
2014-10-29 06:42:00 PM tamialfonso limit liquid
2014-10-29 06:42:02 PM steelers7311 briefs
2014-10-29 06:42:03 PM jessica12 dont drink alot before bed
2014-10-29 06:42:05 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 06:42:05 PM conniedeel dont let him drink alot
2014-10-29 06:42:11 PM steelers7311 no drins after eight
2014-10-29 06:42:13 PM cchase limit liquids
2014-10-29 06:42:17 PM tbender bedtime routine
2014-10-29 06:42:17 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 06:42:18 PM steelers7311 that is what i do lol
2014-10-29 06:42:18 PM tamialfonso have him go b4 bed
2014-10-29 06:42:27 PM jessica12 go pee before bed
2014-10-29 06:42:35 PM cchase what then if he does net to go
2014-10-29 06:42:46 PM cchase limit liquids
2014-10-29 06:42:56 PM cchase have him go before bed
2014-10-29 06:42:57 PM tamialfonso have him try again in 10 mins
2014-10-29 06:42:59 PM cchase what else
2014-10-29 06:43:05 PM jessica12 lay down and just before he falls asleep suggest the bathroom again
2014-10-29 06:43:16 PM steelers7311 check every hour
2014-10-29 06:43:24 PM tbender talk about how much you need to pee, maybe he will start feeling like he needs to
2014-10-29 06:43:28 PM cchase do you think he is confused as to where the bathroom is??
2014-10-29 06:43:29 PM jessica12 alarm under him
2014-10-29 06:43:39 PM steelers7311 running water
2014-10-29 06:43:41 PM jessica12 assist hiim when he gets up
2014-10-29 06:43:43 PM conniedeel yes
2014-10-29 06:43:45 PM steelers7311 could be
2014-10-29 06:43:57 PM cchase so you limit liquids
2014-10-29 06:44:01 PM steelers7311 bed sensor i like thatt
2014-10-29 06:44:05 PM tamialfonso he may not be fully awake
2014-10-29 06:44:11 PM cchase you get him to go before bed
2014-10-29 06:44:30 PM cchase but he might get up anyways but can't find bathrom
2014-10-29 06:44:43 PM steelers7311 bladder protocol set an alarm
2014-10-29 06:44:44 PM jessica12 buy carpet cleaner!
2014-10-29 06:44:45 PM momma2 alarm on the bed so you can hear
2014-10-29 06:44:53 PM steelers7311 just like retraining bladder
2014-10-29 06:44:55 PM cchase a well known professor in this situation did the following
2014-10-29 06:45:16 PM cchase he painted the bathroom door bright red
2014-10-29 06:45:23 PM momma2 i love it!
2014-10-29 06:45:32 PM tamialfonso ahhh
2014-10-29 06:45:35 PM tbender lol thats cool
2014-10-29 06:45:37 PM conniedeel good idea
2014-10-29 06:45:40 PM steelers7311 that he can see at night
2014-10-29 06:45:43 PM cchase the white toilet was made to stand out by a dark backdrop
2014-10-29 06:45:59 PM momma2 ohh i like thst too!
2014-10-29 06:46:01 PM steelers7311 something shiny
2014-10-29 06:46:13 PM cchase contrast is soooo important
2014-10-29 06:46:14 PM steelers7311 i need i want
2014-10-29 06:46:16 PM momma2 i bet that would look cool in my house:)
2014-10-29 06:46:23 PM cchase lol
2014-10-29 06:46:27 PM tamialfonso hmmm
2014-10-29 06:46:39 PM jessica12 like, dark plate for light food
2014-10-29 06:46:49 PM jessica12 for vision impaired
2014-10-29 06:46:51 PM cchase the key is to think of ways that he can be independent
2014-10-29 06:46:55 PM steelers7311 when you have bladder control issues we will help you redecorate
2014-10-29 06:46:58 PM cchase yes jessica
2014-10-29 06:47:04 PM cchase good one
2014-10-29 06:47:23 PM steelers7311 vision deficit limiuted ability
2014-10-29 06:47:24 PM tamialfonso have his prostrate checked too
2014-10-29 06:47:33 PM steelers7311 bladder scan
2014-10-29 06:47:37 PM cchase look for ways that they can do on there own
2014-10-29 06:47:52 PM cchase yes do verify that there is no physical issue
2014-10-29 06:48:00 PM cchase but if all checks out
2014-10-29 06:48:02 PM jessica12 stay independent for as long as possible
2014-10-29 06:48:07 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 06:48:14 PM conniedeel i agree
2014-10-29 06:48:20 PM cchase they will keep there self esteem
2014-10-29 06:48:31 PM cchase and feel better about themselves
2014-10-29 06:48:41 PM cchase and feel better about you too
2014-10-29 06:49:14 PM conniedeel we need to remember its all about them and how to meet their needs
2014-10-29 06:49:16 PM tamialfonso your not the one telling them they are wrong all the time
2014-10-29 06:49:26 PM steelers7311 not using the word no
2014-10-29 06:49:27 PM momma2 how do u handle a resident who is on the unit and a smoker,
2014-10-29 06:49:41 PM steelers7311 is it a non smoking facility
2014-10-29 06:49:41 PM cchase you should never tell them they are wrong
2014-10-29 06:49:43 PM momma2 when he wants a cigarette he will bang on the door FFFOOORREVER!
2014-10-29 06:49:49 PM steelers7311 have a smoking area and smoke times
2014-10-29 06:49:56 PM jessica12 take them out to smoke and put a sign with smoke times in his room
2014-10-29 06:50:05 PM cchase limit smoking times
2014-10-29 06:50:22 PM momma2 im 9 months pregnant so i dont go outside w him, but there are aids..they just..well wont
2014-10-29 06:50:23 PM steelers7311 is he mobile is he safe
2014-10-29 06:50:29 PM conniedeel smoking area and schedule times
2014-10-29 06:50:30 PM cchase make smokes disappear
2014-10-29 06:50:33 PM tamialfonso and post them by his clock
2014-10-29 06:50:44 PM cchase just can't find them
2014-10-29 06:50:50 PM momma2 sometimes there is only one back there so odviously she cant but its like when its on his mind thas all there is!!
2014-10-29 06:50:55 PM jessica12 fancy e-cigs?
2014-10-29 06:51:02 PM steelers7311 patch
2014-10-29 06:51:10 PM momma2 i need to reccomend the smoke times, thT Should help out a lot
2014-10-29 06:51:13 PM cchase all of those will help
2014-10-29 06:51:23 PM steelers7311 take him to a doctor and let him see his lungs
2014-10-29 06:51:24 PM cchase one more - ready??
2014-10-29 06:51:29 PM jessica12 yep
2014-10-29 06:51:32 PM tbender yes
2014-10-29 06:51:39 PM steelers7311 sure
2014-10-29 06:51:41 PM conniedeel all different departmentrs has to take a turn
2014-10-29 06:51:44 PM tamialfonso yes
2014-10-29 06:51:53 PM momma2 yupp
2014-10-29 06:51:57 PM cchase Ellen comes up to you and says
2014-10-29 06:52:09 PM steelers7311 i had that problem too with smokers im allergic to smoke
2014-10-29 06:52:12 PM cchase that you took her pocketbook - what do you do??
2014-10-29 06:52:46 PM jessica12 i dont think i took it. lets go see if its in your room
2014-10-29 06:52:46 PM steelers7311 show her to her room say we will go look for it
2014-10-29 06:52:49 PM conniedeel ask her what it looks like and we will go look for it in your room
2014-10-29 06:52:56 PM momma2 let her know i havnt seen it and help her look for it, inform the administrator what she said first..then help her look if she will let you
2014-10-29 06:53:11 PM tamialfonso get a 2nd person , ask her when she saw it last
2014-10-29 06:53:16 PM steelers7311 maybe you set it down somewhere, lets see if we can find it in your room
2014-10-29 06:53:30 PM tamialfonso you will help her look for it
2014-10-29 06:53:36 PM momma2 allow her to search my office if she is really sure i took it
2014-10-29 06:53:37 PM tbender tll her that you didnt realize you had it, tell her you're not sure where it is, but let go find it
2014-10-29 06:53:45 PM steelers7311 always have a second person because putting words in your mouth
2014-10-29 06:53:58 PM conniedeel we have a resident that hides her newspaper under her pillow so we know where top lookl for it if she cant fine it
2014-10-29 06:54:08 PM jessica12 if she never had a pocket book then tell her that her daughter has it safe with her
2014-10-29 06:54:09 PM steelers7311 have another purse o hand accessable and say here it is
2014-10-29 06:54:11 PM cchase hmmmm - how do you think she feels??
2014-10-29 06:54:25 PM tbender like she's being lied to
2014-10-29 06:54:31 PM tamialfonso know where her hiding spots are and look there
2014-10-29 06:54:32 PM shottinger enter the chat room
2014-10-29 06:54:32 PM momma2 lost, confused,
2014-10-29 06:54:40 PM jessica12 like im a theif
2014-10-29 06:54:46 PM momma2 unsure..insecure?
2014-10-29 06:54:49 PM steelers7311 tell her that it was safer at thome with your money your daughter will bring it in a little bit
2014-10-29 06:54:53 PM cchase yes all of the above
2014-10-29 06:55:05 PM cchase so what do you need to let her know
2014-10-29 06:55:16 PM steelers7311 it is safely with her family
2014-10-29 06:55:19 PM shottinger soo sorry bout missed the whole chat....sick baby ugh
2014-10-29 06:55:25 PM conniedeel you will look for it
2014-10-29 06:55:25 PM jessica12 that everything is ok
2014-10-29 06:55:30 PM steelers7311 we can get you a new one to keep here
2014-10-29 06:55:33 PM tbender that shes safe no matter where it is
2014-10-29 06:55:37 PM momma2 that you would never do that to her and will get to the bottom of it if you can
2014-10-29 06:55:49 PM cchase how does she feel??
2014-10-29 06:55:54 PM jessica12 usually if someone is upset i reassure them that everything is ok and that seems to releive them a little
2014-10-29 06:56:04 PM cchase scared
2014-10-29 06:56:08 PM cchase upset
2014-10-29 06:56:13 PM cchase angry
2014-10-29 06:56:14 PM steelers7311 unable to make decisions
2014-10-29 06:56:15 PM tamialfonso she feels defensive
2014-10-29 06:56:22 PM steelers7311 pissed off
2014-10-29 06:56:27 PM cchase maybe
2014-10-29 06:56:35 PM conniedeel upset
2014-10-29 06:56:45 PM cchase how do you let her know that her feelings are appropriate
2014-10-29 06:56:54 PM cchase wouldn't you be upset
2014-10-29 06:57:03 PM steelers7311 say im sorry
2014-10-29 06:57:04 PM tbender tell he yo would feel the same way
2014-10-29 06:57:10 PM cchase there you go
2014-10-29 06:57:13 PM steelers7311 is there anything I can do to help you
2014-10-29 06:57:16 PM jessica12 say i understand that you are upset but we are going to take care of this and find it
2014-10-29 06:57:18 PM conniedeel that you understand
2014-10-29 06:57:21 PM steelers7311 would you like to call your daughter
2014-10-29 06:57:21 PM momma2 hold her hand and show symp
2014-10-29 06:57:27 PM cchase you need to let her know that you understand
2014-10-29 06:57:37 PM tamialfonso you tell her you get upset when your things are missing too
2014-10-29 06:57:42 PM cchase it is scary to lose your pocketbook
2014-10-29 06:57:45 PM steelers7311 sensory stimulation
2014-10-29 06:57:47 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 06:57:55 PM steelers7311 hold hand arm rubbing comfort give her a hug
2014-10-29 06:57:56 PM cchase validate how she feels
2014-10-29 06:58:01 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 06:58:10 PM conniedeel yes i have done this
2014-10-29 06:58:14 PM cchase that is soooo reassuring
2014-10-29 06:58:30 PM cchase she is NOT wrong to feel a lose
2014-10-29 06:58:36 PM steelers7311 are these scenarios going to be on the national exam problem solving?
2014-10-29 06:58:38 PM cchase help her with those feelings
2014-10-29 06:58:51 PM steelers7311 tell her everything will be okay
2014-10-29 06:58:54 PM cchase then help her go look for it
2014-10-29 06:59:14 PM cchase everything will not be okay if she can't find it
2014-10-29 06:59:23 PM tamialfonso do we know where her hiding spots are?
2014-10-29 06:59:24 PM cchase look for it
2014-10-29 06:59:29 PM conniedeel yes you may already know where it is
2014-10-29 06:59:32 PM cchase give her time to forget
2014-10-29 06:59:39 PM cchase the sense of loss
2014-10-29 06:59:43 PM jessica12 find something else to do
2014-10-29 06:59:56 PM cchase yes redirect while you look for it
2014-10-29 07:00:04 PM cchase use the opportunity of time
2014-10-29 07:00:10 PM steelers7311 yes keep her involved with activities
2014-10-29 07:00:11 PM tamialfonso even if it had nothing in it it a loss for her
2014-10-29 07:00:12 PM tbender fnd some laundry to fld
2014-10-29 07:00:13 PM cchase where she will forget
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2014-10-29 07:00:18 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 07:00:24 PM cchase make a sandwich
2014-10-29 07:00:30 PM cchase cup of tea
2014-10-29 07:00:34 PM kathya86 hello
2014-10-29 07:00:39 PM cchase hi there
2014-10-29 07:00:40 PM tamialfonso hi
2014-10-29 07:00:47 PM conniedeel hi
2014-10-29 07:00:49 PM steelers7311 lunch time is an approiate timing for all of that
2014-10-29 07:00:58 PM cchase well I need to ask if you all found this helpful
2014-10-29 07:00:59 PM kathya86 whats the subject
2014-10-29 07:01:04 PM momma2 yes!!
2014-10-29 07:01:07 PM tbender yes!
2014-10-29 07:01:15 PM conniedeel yes i enjoyed it
2014-10-29 07:01:16 PM steelers7311 absolutely
2014-10-29 07:01:16 PM jessica12 most helpful chat i have attended so far, thank you
2014-10-29 07:01:16 PM momma2 i really enjoyed it!! thanks so much
2014-10-29 07:01:22 PM tamialfonso i liked the challenging questios
2014-10-29 07:01:23 PM steelers7311 everyday issues with my residents
2014-10-29 07:01:29 PM cchase it is not necessarily on the test. this is my method of teaching
2014-10-29 07:01:30 PM momma2 def the most helpful chat thus far
2014-10-29 07:01:33 PM steelers7311 i need more experience
2014-10-29 07:01:44 PM steelers7311 i agree momma
2014-10-29 07:01:45 PM tbender this is how I learn
2014-10-29 07:01:46 PM cchase time is a wonderful teacher
2014-10-29 07:01:47 PM tamialfonso a good one, makes you think
2014-10-29 07:01:51 PM jessica12 volunteer in an alz unit
2014-10-29 07:01:52 PM momma2 are you going to host more cchase?
2014-10-29 07:02:00 PM cchase yes
2014-10-29 07:02:01 PM steelers7311 sets us for our job titles and what we will need to trach when we are directos
2014-10-29 07:02:05 PM momma2 great!!
2014-10-29 07:02:08 PM cchase I do adult day health chat too
2014-10-29 07:02:11 PM steelers7311 when
2014-10-29 07:02:17 PM tbender oh good
2014-10-29 07:02:17 PM steelers7311 fun
2014-10-29 07:02:19 PM cchase hope you all will be ther
2014-10-29 07:02:22 PM momma2 when/
2014-10-29 07:02:24 PM momma2 ?
2014-10-29 07:02:28 PM jessica12 ?
2014-10-29 07:02:33 PM steelers7311 ?
2014-10-29 07:02:44 PM cchase next wednesday
2014-10-29 07:02:49 PM cchase same time as today
2014-10-29 07:02:57 PM cchase adult day health room
2014-10-29 07:02:58 PM conniedeel look forward to it
2014-10-29 07:03:00 PM steelers7311 will you be at the confernce in raleigh nc in june?
2014-10-29 07:03:01 PM momma2 great! so tuesdays w kathy and wed w you?
2014-10-29 07:03:27 PM cchase not sure if I can make that conference but may do the chat for NCCAP
2014-10-29 07:03:34 PM steelers7311 cool
2014-10-29 07:03:38 PM jessica12 will be there
2014-10-29 07:03:39 PM steelers7311 looking forward to ir
2014-10-29 07:03:40 PM steelers7311 it
2014-10-29 07:03:42 PM cchase you were all so wonderful
2014-10-29 07:03:50 PM cchase so proud of you all
2014-10-29 07:03:54 PM steelers7311 thank you for your help very resourceful
2014-10-29 07:04:01 PM shottinger left the chat room
2014-10-29 07:04:05 PM cchase you can email me with any questins
2014-10-29 07:04:13 PM steelers7311 this was extra credit right bc im gonna miss tomorrow nights chats
2014-10-29 07:04:17 PM cchase cchase@activitydirector.org
2014-10-29 07:04:17 PM jessica12 (H)
2014-10-29 07:04:18 PM tamialfonso thank you for the chat
2014-10-29 07:04:22 PM steelers7311 can you email me the scenarios for review
2014-10-29 07:04:24 PM cchase be well
2014-10-29 07:04:28 PM jessica12 left the chat room
2014-10-29 07:04:28 PM cchase good night
2014-10-29 07:04:32 PM tbender thank you!
2014-10-29 07:04:37 PM conniedeel thanks for a great chat good night
2014-10-29 07:04:46 PM cchase your welcome
2014-10-29 07:04:48 PM tbender goodnight
2014-10-29 07:04:49 PM tamialfonso good nite
2014-10-29 07:04:53 PM tbender left the chat room
2014-10-29 07:04:53 PM momma2 night!! thanks cchase
2014-10-29 07:04:56 PM conniedeel left the chat room
2014-10-29 07:05:00 PM steelers7311 thanks connie
2014-10-29 07:05:05 PM cchase ({)
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2014-10-29 07:05:12 PM tamialfonso nite everyone
2014-10-29 07:05:14 PM cchase (})
2014-10-29 07:05:21 PM steelers7311 gnight
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2014-10-29 07:21:11 PM jyoung i missed it
2014-10-29 07:21:34 PM jyoung good night :'(
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2014-11-06 05:38:21 PM patlec Did I missi it....
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2014-11-08 09:41:13 AM katieok11 I'm so confused about these live chats. I have never taken an online course before. When is the next Alzheimer's chat?
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2014-11-09 07:37:40 PM lauraleal Me too. I work 7 days and about 10 hours a day. I'm hoping to participate.
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